Saturday, April 30, 2011

Weekend Round-Up #81

This week the round up is going to be short.

Life is crazy and I haven't had time to blog surf like I usually do. I've been sick, I've been to the zoo, I watched in horror as my home state (AL) was ravaged by storms, I've gotten some scary news about a relative's health, I've been (happily) swamped with etsy orders, and we're taking the kids to the Beaufort Airshow tomorrow.

There seriously is NO TIME.

But I did want you to enjoy the few items I did get to read and enjoy!

The 306th edition of the Carnival of Personal Finance – Weird, Wacky, Unusual, and Crazy hosted by Upside of Money was a great collection of posts. One of my posts was included? Which one? You'll have to visit to find out! And check out all of the other great reads you'll find while you are there!

"Gang-Cut" coupons hurt stores, manufacturers and consumers by Jill Cataldo really opened my eyes. A must read for any couponer!

Oddly Specific: Don’t You Dare Go One Second Sooner posted at Failblog. I don't understand this sign. Like at all.

Photo credit: fdecomite

Thursday, April 28, 2011

At a Total Loss for Words

Although I am feeling physically much better than I was a couple of days ago, I am heart-broken for my friends and family as well as all of the residents of my home state of Alabama.

I am without words, so there is no additional post today.

Pray for them.

Tuesday, April 26, 2011

Tuesday Free For All - 04/26

Feeling awful today. No interest in putting together a full Free for All post, so go ahead and enter your giveaway links here and enter some others! Hope to be back blogging soon!

GIVEAWAYS:






Saturday, April 23, 2011

Weekend Round-Up #80

FINANCIAL:
I was included this week in the Totally Money Carnival: Tax Day Edition hosted by The College Investor. Click over and get a hold of some great reads!
21 Financial Questions to Improve Your Marriage at Christian PF is a great list for all couples...engaged, newly married, struggling with finances, or secure. The more you talk, the more you can work this together.
72 Questions to Find the Perfect House at fiscal fizzle is a great tool to have for those of you house-shopping right now! It even works (mostly) for renting.
The Dark Side of Being Self-Employed at Personal Dividends is a great post that working for yourself is not always everything you dreamed it would be.
Why Dont Coupons Work? at Financially Poor is a great no-frills kind of post.

FAMILY/LIFE:
a heart wrenching moment at Work, Wife, Mom...Life! reminds me of a post I did just few days ago. I know how she feels...and it sucks.
Declutter and Get Amazon Credit at The Prudent Pantry offers a great tip for decluttering without the hassle of having to handle individual sales!

FAITH:
Sunday Funnies -- the Cartoonist and the Creator
at Red Letter Believers is a tribute to Johnny Hartof cartoonist fame. His beliefs were obvious in his artwork (which always did seem surprisingly...but happily obviously printed in secular papers) but I didn't know his story. What a great story.

FUN:
#262 The smell of the barbecue at 1000 Awesome Things is, in fact, awesome. Although we cook on the (gas) grill year round (we live in the southern US), a few days ago someone fired up their charcoal grill and it was HEAVENLY!

Photo credit: kool_skatkat

Friday, April 22, 2011

Good Friday

It's Good Friday and I am spending time with my family today. I hope you enjoy your weekend. I'll see you on Monday.

Thursday, April 21, 2011

Things My 21-Year Old Self Didn't Know

Ten years ago at this time, I was wrapping up my last term in college. At this point I had no job although I had interviewed for many. I would be getting one soon, but at this time, the pressure was still on.

I had worked part time during school but had only ever held down a full time job in my life during two different summers that I had internships. They paid, but only slightly above minimum wage. The experience was the key payment here.

I was finally a "real" adult. I was 21 years old and about to go into the real world. I knew it would be hard, but I was ready...or so I thought.

Over the last 10 years I have learned a lot about finances...mostly through the school of hard knocks although over the last 1-1/2 years, I've been trying to actually educate myself more. Here are a list of the things I would tell myself if I could travel back in time 10 years:

  1. Just because you can handle a little money does not mean you can handle a lot. Logic would tell you that if you can handle a little you can handle a lot. Even the Bible teaches us that (remember that parable?). However, I was GREAT at handling tiny bills with my tiny paychecks. Once I was getting bigger paychecks, I thought I was rich. I had no idea. Lottery winners prove this again and again, but even on smaller checks than the lottery offers, money can be tempting to just spend if you haven't learned better. With more money comes more responsibility.
  2. Just because you don't like to shop at the mall, does not mean you don't like to shop. You can still easily blow money without going shopping all of the time. Most of the money we have blown in the past has been wrapped up in eating out, vacations, decor for the home, and upgrading/repairing our home. I'm not a mall rat, but I still know how to blow through some cash. Fast.
  3. You REALLY need to talk more about money in your marriage. From the beginning. I know...it's not sexy. It's not fun. It is CRITICAL though. I will not go into how many fights, tensions, and anxieties have resulted in our marriage because we just didn't talk about money. Spending. Saving. Plans. Habits. None of it. Trust me...talk about it and save yourself the heartache. Compromises are ALWAYS better than fights.
  4. Stuff is really just stuff. It's amazing how much stuff I wanted once I had a paycheck. Stuff I didn't need. Newer stuff. Nicer stuff. Different stuff. Just stuff. Now I'm trying to get rid of some of that same stuff because it just clutters my life. I would have saved myself a lot of money and hassle by not buying it in the first place. If it doesn't serve a direct purpose and fulfill a real NEED in your life, don't buy it.
  5. Believe it or not, smart spending/saving practices will one day be more impressive than a new ______. Although some people will always be caught up in material things, those are not the people I want to impress. I now know that. I would rather be labeled as frugal than as materialistic.
  6. Don't buy something based on the monthly payment. Buy it based on the cost. This was a huge practice for long time. We have an extra $200/month, why not buy it? Forget that at $200/month it would take 7 years and thousands in interest...I could afford the monthly bill, so why not, right? Wrong. Stupid, stupid, stupid.
  7. Make sure you love your job. I know money is enticing, but if you have loads of money but are unhappy, that money will not make you happier. It will just give you the ability to buy more stuff...which will not make you happier. You must love what you do every. single. day or you will be miserable no matter how many zeros are on your paycheck.
  8. Children truly will enjoy the box more than the expensive toy that came in it. Children are truly easy to please until you teach them otherwise. They have fun with cardboard boxes and an imagination. They love flying a $1 kite. They love playing at a public park. They love running around playing in the yard with their friends. They love books that you can get from the library for free. They love playing the in hose on a hot summer day. A $1.00 bottle of bubbles can provide hours of entertainment. Some of my best childhood memories didn't cost a nickel. You don't have to buy their love or their fun.
  9. You still have a lot to learn. I think most of us are cocky at this age. We haven't grown out of that aggressiveness that we needed to get through adolescence. We feel that we have come this far and now life is just to be enjoyed. Wrong. I have learned more in the last 10 years that I ever thought possible. About my career. About my life. About my husband. About other people. About myself. There is a world out there full of possibilities that your brain has not yet wrapped itself around. Be aware that changes are coming and you have giant opportunities to learn ahead of you. Embrace them rather than resisting.

One thing I did do right:
  1. Save for retirement from Day 1. Or at least as soon as your employer allows you to get into the retirement plan. At my one-year work anniversary, I signed up for our company's 401k. I was 22 years old and although I didn't see the effects immediately I was told it was the smart thing to do. Boy am I glad I listened. I have just over $100,000 already waiting across a couple different accounts...and I'm still contributing. Those will continue to grow as time goes on. Do you think I would have saved that on my own in this time? Obviously not...our savings account has $3000 in it current and some of that is earmarked for other uses.

So, the time is drawing near that some will be graduating college soon. Some will be graduating high school soon and embarking on a bigger life. Hopefully my lessons will be able to help someone else grasp the bigger picture more easily.

I can't wait to see what the next 10 years teach me.

What about you? What lessons have you learned in the last 10 years that you'd love to pass along?

Photo credit: marygober

Wanna Win Some Candy?

You people love to jump on a chance to win some of my homemade candy, so I wanted to tell you that you can do it again!

a little etsy love


Head over to A Little Etsy Love before April 28th and enter to win a small (1/2 pound) order of your choice of candy. There are a lot of new choices since you last got a chance to win, so go pick yourself out something nice.

It would be ready by Mother's Day (hint, hint).

Unique Mother's Day Card - Snapily


Each year thousands of people flock to the local card-buying-location-of-choice to buy a Mother's Day card. Don't get me wrong, as it is a nice sentiment, but everyone is usually stuck trying to pick out a card that is perfect for their Mom from a selection of pre-written mass-produced items.

And you have to find one that is perfect. Do you want mushy? Funny? Sentimental? Religious? Sarcastic? Simple? Elegant? A strange combination of any of the above?

It's difficult. Too often we settle. I know I have bought cards for my mom (from the kids) before that didn't really fit her personality just because it was the only one left in the store for "Nana." Don't call her "Grandma" - she doesn't like that.

So what is left?

Personalized.

You can choose a personalized card from any number of photo websites, but why not do something unique this year? Are you ready for it?

Choose two pictures. Maybe one picture each of two children. Maybe one of you and one of your children. Maybe two different pictures of all of the children. Whatever. Pick whatever works.

And use them to created an awesome 3-D card from Snapily. I promise that she will not have ever gotten anything like it.











How awesome is that?!

I know...you think it is going to cost you big bucks, don't you? I would think so too. But then we'd both be wrong.

Because this card normally would go for $3.99 plus shipping (approximately what you would pay in a card shop). What's better? You can use the code Giveme3 to save $3.00 and make this treat only $0.99. What's better, if you order on April 25th or April 26th (next Monday or Tuesday), you can use SHIPFREE on top of it to get the entire card for $0.99 shipped.

So mark it on your calendars and pick one up for Mom or Grandma. I know we did and the kids think it is the coolest card they've ever seen. I know Nana will love it too!


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Wednesday, April 20, 2011

WFMW - Photographing Your Kids for Safety

Go ahead and call me a bad mom, but I typically do not have photos of my children on my person. That's right...not even in my purse. In fact, I only have my purse with me approximately 50% of the time. If you were to ask me for a photo of my child, I would probably have to go home, pull the memory card out of our camera, open it on the computer and either email it to you or print it out. I just don't carry them with me.

So when I saw this idea for how to have a photo of your children handy, I thought it was brilliant, so not we do it too.

Whenever you are in a public place and have a fear of losing sight of your children (you know, park on a busy day, festival, fair, theme park, busy street, tourist venue, whatever), use your cell phone to take a photo of your children BEFORE you get to the venue. This way, in the event your child gets lost, you have not only a recent photo of them, but even the exact outfit they were wearing when they disappeared.

Now I know this is not a pleasant thought to consider, but it is reality and as a parent, is something we must think about.

So use this tip to always have a handy current photo of your child on hand in case you ever need it.

And afterwards, you have a cute wallpaper for your phone on a day-to-day basis.

To provide peace of mind, this works for me. Visit We Are THAT Family to see what works for others!

Photo credit: sans5

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

Tuesday Free For All - 04/19

More free stuff here! If you are looking for the giveaway linky, scroll to the bottom of this post. Happy freebies grabbing and sweepstakes and giveaway entering!

FREEBIES:
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  • Free Kindle Download of Divine, by Karen Kingsbury.
  • Earn 5 Free Books from Scholastic when your child completes the math and reading worksheets.
  • There's a new Target sample available today -- get a FREE sample of GoodNites Underwear! Expect your sample in 4-6 weeks.
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  • Receive a FREE Reusable Shopping Bag on Friday, 4/22, when you bring in and recycle five plastic shopping bags at The Disney Store.
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  • Free Shroom & Swiss Sandwich @ Arby's: Print this coupon good for a free Shroom and Swiss Sandwich with purchase of small fries and drink at full price.
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  • Free laundry detergent: Get a free sample of Purex laundry detergent.
  • Get a FREE Tree at Lowes on Saturday, April 23 to celebrate Earth Day Lowes is giving away a million Trees.
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  • College students can request a FREE Earth Day T-Shirt. The form is at the end of the video. School address is required. This offer is available to the U.S., while supplies last.
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SWEEPSTAKES:

GIVEAWAYS:



*Huge thanks to my sources: Thunder Fap, PointClickHome, Elle, Woman’s Day Magazine, The Freebie Blogger, Deal Seeking Mom, Couponing 101, Free Sample Freak, Better Homes & Gardens, SwagGrabber, Mommies with Cents, & "Deal"icious Mom

Photo credit: Andrew Burgess

Monday, April 18, 2011

8 Great Quotes About Money

It's amazing the wise things that come out of the mouths of such a variety of people!

The safe way to double your money is to fold it over once and put it in your pocket. ~Frank Hubbard

It is an unfortunate human failing that a full pocketbook often groans more loudly than an empty stomach. ~Franklin Delano Roosevelt

The only reason a great many American families don't own an elephant is that they have never been offered an elephant for a dollar down and easy weekly payments. ~Mad Magazine

"Your money, or your life." We know what to do when a burglar makes this demand of us, but not when God does. ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic's Notebook, 1966

A bank is a place that will lend you money if you can prove that you don't need it. ~Bob Hope

Money is neither my god nor my devil. It is a form of energy that tends to make us more of who we already are, whether it's greedy or loving. ~Dan Millman

Never spend your money before you have earned it. ~Thomas Jefferson

Advertising is the art of convincing people to spend money they don't have for something they don't need. ~Will Rogers

Find something in life that you love doing. If you make a lot of money, that's a bonus, and if you don't, you still won't hate going to work. ~Jeff Foxworthy

Max on Life by Max Lucado - Review

The publisher's description: We have questions. Child-like inquiries. And deep, heavy ones.

In more than twenty-five years of writing and ministry, Max Lucado has been the receiving line for thousands of such questions. The questions come in letters, e-mails, even on Dunkin Donuts napkins. In Max on Life he offers thoughtful answers to more than 150 of the most pressing questions on topics ranging from hope to hurt, from home to the hereafter.

Max writes about the role of prayer, the purpose of pain, and the reason for our ultimate hope. He responds to the day-to-day questions—parenting quandaries, financial challenges, difficult relationships—as well as to the profound: Is God really listening?

A special addendum includes Max’s advice on writing and publishing.

Including topical and scriptural indexes and filled with classic Lucado encouragement and insight, Max on Life will quickly become a favorite resource for pastors and ministry leaders as well as new and mature believers.


My thoughts:
I have a hard time deciding what to tell you about this book. It has a lot of great information in it. It addresses some age-old questions that some most Christians (and non-Christians) deal with. It uses a lot of really great Biblical references to support the answers.

I can imagine that it would be really great for three groups of people: 1.) those investigating Christianity, 2.) new Christians, and 3.) Christians struggling with some aspect in their life.

Honestly though, I was a bit disappointed. I have heard all of those answers and they would be great to look back on when I had questions, but maybe this was just a bad time in my life to read that particular book. Not, that I feel like I have all of the answers, but I don't feel like I have any questions that really NEED answering at this time. Therefore, it made for a lackluster read.

And you know, I LOVE Max Lucado's books. I was looking for something more along the lines of what he typically writes. Those books full of inspiration and snippets that I find myself quoting him on. There were none of these in this book.

Summary:
Honestly, it is a good book. It would be great to buy for any of the above groups of people. Or you might just want to have it handy on your shelf for when times of questioning do arrive, you have some Biblical reference ready to go. Either way, although maybe not a must-read on my list, still full of great information.


Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Saturday, April 16, 2011

Weekend Round-Up #79

I hope you all have a wonderful weekend! Here's some reading in case you get some rain like we're supposed to and can't spend time outside.

FINANCIAL:


FAMILY/LIFE:
  • My First Failure As a Mother at Women Living Well hit really close to home. I had similar experiences nursing my children. I hate feeling like a failure and I hate feeling like I have to explain why we had to take the route we did. Great post!


FUN:


Photo credit: Chris Blakeley

Friday, April 15, 2011

Friday Faves - Leonardo da Vinci's Resume

I am copying this from an email sent to a coworker and forwarded to me. Loved it and thought you might too. Here is the original.

Before he was famous, before he painted the Mona Lisa and the Last Supper, before he invented the helicopter, before he drew the most famous image of man, before he was all of these things, Leonardo da Vinci was an artificer, an armorer, a maker of things that go "boom".

And, like you, he had to put together a resume to get his next gig. So in 1482, at the age of 30, he wrote out a letter and a list of his capabilities and sent it off to Ludovico il Moro, Duke of Milan.

Well, we at TheLadders.com have tracked down that resume, and I'm presenting it to you in honor of da Vinci's birthday coming up this Friday, April the 15th.



The translation of this letter is quite remarkable:

"Most Illustrious Lord, Having now sufficiently considered the specimens of all those who proclaim themselves skilled contrivers of instruments of war, and that the invention and operation of the said instruments are nothing different from those in common use: I shall endeavor, without prejudice to any one else, to explain myself to your Excellency, showing your Lordship my secret, and then offering them to your best pleasure and approbation to work with effect at opportune moments on all those things which, in part, shall be briefly noted below.
  1. I have a sort of extremely light and strong bridges, adapted to be most easily carried, and with them you may pursue, and at any time flee from the enemy; and others, secure and indestructible by fire and battle, easy and convenient to lift and place. Also methods of burning and destroying those of the enemy.

  2. I know how, when a place is besieged, to take the water out of the trenches, and make endless variety of bridges, and covered ways and ladders, and other machines pertaining to such expeditions.

  3. If, by reason of the height of the banks, or the strength of the place and its position, it is impossible, when besieging a place, to avail oneself of the plan of bombardment, I have methods for destroying every rock or other fortress, even if it were founded on a rock, etc.

  4. Again, I have kinds of mortars; most convenient and easy to carry; and with these I can fling small stones almost resembling a storm; and with the smoke of these cause great terror to the enemy, to his great detriment and confusion.

  5. And if the fight should be at sea I have kinds of many machines most efficient for offense and defense; and vessels which will resist the attack of the largest guns and powder and fumes.

  6. I have means by secret and tortuous mines and ways, made without noise, to reach a designated spot, even if it were needed to pass under a trench or a river.

  7. I will make covered chariots, safe and unattackable, which, entering among the enemy with their artillery, there is no body of men so great but they would break them. And behind these, infantry could follow quite unhurt and without any hindrance.

  8. In case of need I will make big guns, mortars, and light ordnance of fine and useful forms, out of the common type.

  9. Where the operation of bombardment might fail, I would contrive catapults, mangonels, trabocchi, and other machines of marvelous efficacy and not in common use. And in short, according to the variety of cases, I can contrive various and endless means of offense and defense.

  10. In times of peace I believe I can give perfect satisfaction and to the equal of any other in architecture and the composition of buildings public and private; and in guiding water from one place to another.

  11. I can carry out sculpture in marble, bronze, or clay, and also I can do in painting whatever may be done, as well as any other, be he who he may.


Again, the bronze horse may be taken in hand, which is to be to the immortal glory and eternal honor of the prince your father of happy memory, and of the illustrious house of Sforza.

And if any of the above-named things seem to anyone to be impossible or not feasible, I am most ready to make the experiment in your park, or in whatever place may please your Excellency - to whom I comment myself with the utmost humility, etc."

I'm a hopeless pedantic, so of course I'm going to take this opportunity to let you know what you can learn from Leonardo's resume ...

You'll notice he doesn't recite past achievements. He doesn't mention the painting of the altarpiece for the Chapel of St Bernard; he doesn't provide a laundry list of past bombs he's built; he doesn't cite his prior employment in artist Andrea di Cione's studio. No, he does none of these things, because those would be about his achievements, not the Duke's needs.

Instead, he sells his prospective employer on what Leonardo can do for him.

Now imagine being the Duke of Milan and receiving this magnificent letter/resume from the young Wunderkind of Florence. The specific descriptives paint a wonderful picture (that is, if you're a Renaissance Duke) of siege engines and bombardments and mortars and trench-draining and bridges to defeat the enemy. You can almost imagine the scenes that ran through the Duke's head as he held this letter in his hands and read through Leonardo da Vinci's bold statements of capabilities.

I mean, who wouldn't want "kinds of mortars; most convenient and easy to carry; [that] can fling small stones almost resembling a storm"? Sounds pretty enticing.

And that's exactly what your resume needs to do, too. Not the laundry list/standard bio that talks about you, but the marketing piece that talks about the benefits to your future employer and how you fit into his or her needs and desires.

So it turns out that even on his 559th birthday, this remarkable fellow Leonardo da Vinci is still teaching us something about the future. What a genius...

Source

Thursday, April 14, 2011

Etsy News - Just in Time for Mother's Day!



If you want to give the gift that keeps on giving, why not consider a Fudge of the Month or Cake Truffles of the Month gift for your mom or wife this Mother's Day?

I have just listed this newly featured option at my Etsy store, How Sweet It Is. Once a month for 12 or 6 months your recipient will receive a gift of treats delivered to their front door with a note reminding them of where this bounty came from.

Yum!

Flavors will be chosen based on holidays or just randomly. And if you tell me their birthday month, they will get a special treat that month as well!

And with ANY order, use the coupon code MOMSROCK from now until April 30th to save 20% off your order!

I promise...you'll be the favorite child from now on. =)

Great Side Income for College Students

"Broke College Student" isn't just a cliche...it's usually fact. Sometimes it is due to lack of income. Sometimes it is due to overspending. Always there is need for more money though (either to pay rent or to buy another pizza). Here are some gigs that can get you a little more jingle in your pocket while training for your career.

  1. Tutoring - That's right. It's obvious but such a great option it cannot go by without mentioning it. You can either get paid by the school to do it through them or you can advertise personally and set your own rates (be cautious though and don't find yourself alone with someone you don't know).
  2. Musician - That's right...there are plenty of restaurants and such looking for talented musicians. Just make sure these late nights don't get in the way of your studies so you can one day make more than what that night-time gig will bring in. Nighttime not your thing? I got paid $100/week over 10 years ago to play the organ for a church. It required me to be there 2 hours on Sunday morning and 2 hours on Wednesday night. Yep...$25 an hour to be somewhere I would have been anyway. WIN! You can also get gigs doing weddings and parties as well.
  3. Jailbreaking an iPhone - completely legal and if you know how, you can really make a lot of money at this. If you don't know how to do it, you know there are plenty of tutorials online!
  4. Babysitting - Sure a lot of people consider it a school-girl job, but as a parent, I know it can be quite lucrative. Parents are certain to pay a college student more than a high schooler and you can probably get some work done after the kids are in bed! You can extend this into petsitting and housesitting as well!
  5. Graphic design - If this is your specialty, whip up some website graphics or banners and market them. Something that might take you a short while to create could pay your rent for the month.
  6. Turn your hobby into income - If you love to dance, play piano, play tennis, or any number of other things, you can likely make money teaching other people (or their children) how to do the same. And since you aren't a professional, if you can do it independently, you can reach out to clients by charging less than pros.
  7. Become a mystery shopper - I have done this a few times and it is actually kinda' fun. You get to do a task to check out a business and get fully reimbursed for the entire thing, and usually get a little extra in addition. This way you could not only make money, but get a free meal or two also! Win-win.
  8. Car Washing/Detailing - Great for getting some fresh air and using up some daytime hours that you aren't in class. You could really get this to take off during the spring while everyone is fighting pollen on their cars. If you have an eye for detail you can really make good money this way.
  9. DJing - If you have an iPod full of great music and access to a decent sound system, you could use those two items to really thicken your wallet. Look for parties, weddings, Bar/Bat Mitzvah's, birthdays, or even picnics and such for businesses. The good news? You just set up, take any requests you can, and tear down. Otherwise you get to sit and enjoy the music.

Best of luck and remember, don't get too caught up in making side money that you forget why you're paying to be at school in the first place!

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

Confessions of THIS Working Mom

There is often found some animosity between moms who stay at home with their children full time and others who work outside of the home. Each seems to think the other attacks them...and some actually do. Regardless of which side of the fence you (or your wife) sit on today, know that these confessions are my heartfelt feelings. They are not personal. They may not even be truth. But they are how I feel at this moment in my life.
  1. I always wanted a career. Growing up I probably wanted a career more than children. I excelled academically and felt this was my obvious path.
  2. I entered a male-dominated field because engineering is something that I'm good at. It makes sense to me. If I had to choose a career over again, I would choose this one again a hundred times over.
  3. I realized how much I wanted to have a child when I suspected I was pregnant and miscarrying due to some major trauma in my life. I was heartbroken over the loss of this possible child and knew then that I wanted to be a mom.
  4. Becoming a mom has changed my entire perspective on my life. It gave me new purpose. It gave me new focus. It gave me new goals.
  5. I am the breadwinner of our family. It is due to the fact that I chose a field that allows financial growth when promotions arise. Being pretty good at what I do, I have received promotions and that has allowed a growing paycheck.
  6. I care only about my career at this point in my life because it provides a livelihood for my family.
  7. I THINK I would love to stay at home with the children. I would love to interact with them more frequently on a daily basis. I dream of things I would do with them and ways I would teach them about the world we live in.
  8. I also know that I might not be that great of a stay at home mom. There are plenty of times that I feel I lose my patience too easily, and I would hate to impart that on my children so frequently.
  9. I wish I could give it a try just to see. And I could work on my patience and grow with my children.
  10. I probably will never get that wish.
  11. I hate thinking of all of the class trips I won't be able to chaperone.
  12. I hate all of the bake sales I will miss working because I'll be at work.
  13. I hate thinking of the before school and after school hours my children will have to endure because I have a career.
  14. I hate feeling like I am letting my children down because they will not truly have a "summer break" from school like I did.
  15. I think I would volunteer more often if I stayed at home with my children. It seems like I would be able to do more in the evenings or even once they were both in school that would benefit the greater good. Now my evenings are spent making sure I spend time with them so I am not completely absent from their lives.
  16. I get frustrated when I read about stay at home moms who complain that they have too much housework in addition to their mom duties. I feel like I have to also fill the role of mom in addition to the same amount of housework WHILE juggling a career.
  17. Then I feel guilty knowing that I haven't walked a mile in their shoes.
  18. But then I feel that way again when I read it from another.
  19. I get jealous that my son wants to spend more time with his dad because he's the fun one. I agree...he is the fun one. But I still get jealous.
  20. I love when I come home to two children who light up when I walk in the door. They often run over to hug me and say "Mom!" It also breaks my heart that they have had reason to miss me.


So. There it is laid on the table for all to see.

Like I said...it is not to offend. It is simply how I feel. And I just felt like I needed to release it today.

Thanks for listening.

Is there anything you need to get off of your chest?

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

Tuesday Free For All - 04/12

More free stuff here! If you are looking for the giveaway linky, scroll to the bottom of this post. Happy freebies grabbing and sweepstakes and giveaway entering!

FREEBIES:


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GIVEAWAYS:


*Huge thanks to my sources: Thunder Fap, PointClickHome, Elle, Woman’s Day Magazine, The Freebie Blogger, Deal Seeking Mom, Couponing 101, Free Sample Freak, The Good Deal Gal, A Few ShortCuts, Better Homes & Gardens, SwagGrabber, Mommies with Cents, & "Deal"icious Mom Photo credit: sea turtle

Monday, April 11, 2011

The Final Summit by Andy Andrews - Review

The publisher's description:

David Ponder is back. This time the fate of mankind is in his hands.

This is mankind’s last chance. Centuries of greed, pride, and hate have sent humanity hurtling toward disaster, and far from its original purpose. There is only one solution that can reset the compass and right the ship, and it consists of only two words.

With time running out, it is up to David Ponder and a cast of history’s best and brightest minds to uncover this solution before it is too late. The catch? They are allowed only five tries to discover the answer.

Readers first encountered David Ponder in The Traveler's Gift. Now, in The Final Summit, Andrews combines a riveting narrative with astounding history in order to show us the one thing we must do when we don’t know what to do.



My thoughts:
Can I just say, "Wow"? I liked The Traveler's Gift when I first read it, as well as The Noticer, but I can honestly tell you that neither of those have a thing on The Final Summit.

This book is full of wisdom and inspiration and I found myself about every 5 pages wanting to put a quote from the book on my Facebook page. There is seriously that much good stuff within.

Not only do you hear wise words, but you learn a lot about historical figures that you have heard of...and even some you have not. There is one in particular that I had to Google to be sure was a real person because his acts were so amazing that I am shocked that I had never heard his story in history books (and yes...he's real although you won't find much of the truth about his life on the internet...at least not in one place). I won't ruin it for you by telling you his name though...you'll have to read it for yourself.

Grab this up and here Andy Andrews speaking through the personas of some of history's most powerful and prominent figures to challenge and encourage the reader. There's also some mathematical amazement that will intrigue some of the most scientific and statistical minds.

Summary:
I will tell you that you will only be better for having read this book. It is one of those life-changers that you will want to not only lend out to everyone you encounter, but also keep on your bookshelf at all times.

Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book from Thomas Nelson Publishers as part of their BookSneeze.com book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.”

Saturday, April 9, 2011

Weekend Round-Up #78

This week I got to participate in this week's Carnival of Personal Finance hosted by Funny About Money. Some of my favorites from the carnival are included below, but click over to see all of the posts and find some others that suit you too!


FINANCIAL:


FAMILY/LIFE:


FAITH:


FUN:



Photo credit: CarbonNYC

Friday, April 8, 2011

Review - HomeEc101: Skills for Everyday Living

I was thrilled when I discovered that Heather from Home Ec 101, a blog that I have followed for over a year now, had written a book! So when I was offered the chance to read a portion of it for review, I jumped at the chance!


I was given the chance to read Chapter 20 of the book Home Ec 101: Skills for Everyday Living. That chapter is entitled Meal Planning: Not Just for the Control Freaks. I have to say, I truly love what I read! There is enough humor laced through the thoroughly instructive and informative chapter that you barely notice that you are zipping through the pages. There are menu plans listed as well as recipes sprinkled throughout the chapter to give you lots of great ideas to get you started.

This chapter is targets toward those beginning the concept of menu plans, and I was thankful that Heather did not dive into the June Cleaver mode of homemaker and demand that pie crusts be made from scratch and laundry done on a washboard. Seriously...she is making it simple for those of us with real, busy lives, who are interested in sitting down at the table together over a meal that was not initiated by teenagers yelling "Order up!" and placing them under red warming lights.

I love that this chapter sails by so easily that in just a few moments you have gone from drive thru nightly to making your own soups.

We menu plan and I love it. It takes the chaos out of the evening. I know each day what we will be eating the following day based on our menu plan, our daily schedules, and the expiration dates of the ingredients.

So if this is not something you do, I highly recommend it. You don't have to slave over a hot oven all day or even own an apron. You just have to be intentional to make this happen. It will take chaos out of your life. It will make you eat healthier. It will bring your family together around the dinner table and you'll find yourselves growing closer together as a family.

From what I've read, I would SO recommend this book. Pick it up for a college grad. Pick it up for a new bride. Pick it up for a struggling mom. Pick it up as a housewarming gift. Pick it up for a seasoned homemaker who just might want some new tricks. Pick it up "just because." This is a book every household should own.

You can find it at Amazon, Barnes and Noble and other retailers. (none are affiliate links)


I was provided an advanced copy of Chapter 20 of the book Home Ec 101: Skills for Everyday Living for a review. All opinions are my own and are no way affected by the free product. This review was set up through One2One Network.

Review - Yanni's Truth of Touch Album

When I was offered the opportunity to review Yanni's new album I knew this would be a great fit for our family, but more for Chip than for me. I used to fancy myself a musician, but he still is. And he has always had a broader appreciation of different types of music than I have.

So without further ado...here is Chip's review of Yanni's new album, Truth of Touch:


This is the first album of Yanni’s that I have listened to since “Live at the Acropolis”. If your exposure to Yanni is equally limited, prepare to be surprised. Having listened to the album a couple of times, I can’t say that it is my favorite but it is easy to listen to. I don’t find the level of emotion in the music to be very high, or ranging, for that matter. It’s simply a disc of music worthy of relaxing afternoon background music, but it won’t put you to sleep.

Yanni does successfully employ a variety of styles on the disc. There is the jazzy “Yanni & Arturo”, featuring jazz great Arturo Sandoval. “Vertigo” has a new-age flavor to it but also retains some flavor of Yanni’s heritage, as well. “Echo of a Dream” and “Flash of Color” are definitely contemporary feeling pieces. Contrasting all of those, and almost out of place on the album, is the semi-operatic “O Luce Che Brilla Nell’oscurita”. A tune that wouldn’t be out of place in a club, but still soothing, is “Nine”. Lovely female vocals are featured on “Can’t Wait”.

All in all, “Truth of Touch” is an album that I would recommend for relaxing and enjoyable listening. It doesn’t paint a comprehensive picture of Yanni as an artist but does reflect a talented artist growing and evolving with the times.


So there you have it, folks. My hubby's impression of this new album. Now that he's done the initial review, I am interested in listening to it myself, as I too last listened to his Live at the Acropolis album.

If you loved his previous work or this review has intrigued you, why not check out his current 40-city US tour to see if he's coming to a city near you. Seriously...he's all over the place, so he'll likely be performing somewhere close by!


Our family received a copy of this album free for review. Our opinions are our own and are in no way affected by the receipt of the free product. This review was received via One2OneNetwork.

When Couponing Gets Too Extreme

So raise your hand if you caught Extreme Couponing on TLC on Wednesday night?

Yeah, I see you out there, and if you wondered, I was tuned in too.

I had previously seen the original 1-hour episode that they aired before the premiere of the new 12-part series. Part of me was impressed. Part of me is still totally disgusted.

Okay, I get it. It's amazing. And it truly is. I love that people can play the system honestly and get items for just pennies on the dollar. I love that people do this to help themselves when times are tough. I like it when people do this just to save money where money can be saved.

But I hate it when they do it just because they get a rush.

Seriously...in the original episode only one lady spoke of only buying the things she needed (thank you), and the guy at the end bought over a thousand boxes of cereal to donate (thank you too!).

The others? Did you see their stockpiles? I think they needed to build fallout shelters to hold all of their loot. No one needs 150 rolls of paper towels. And if you have them, don't buy them AGAIN because they are on sale just to add to your stash. You didn't need the first 150, much less the additional 80 that you just snagged.

The first couple honestly had crap all over their house: in the bedrooms, in the family rooms, dining rooms, etc. When it takes over your house and you still buy over 200 boxes of pasta, you have a disease. It is no longer impressive, it is sad. It's just a mentally unstable way to save money. You know how you got 300 microwavable noodle meals for $2.54? You could have saved that additional $2.54 by not buying ANY of them...because you didn't need them.

I don't have a problem with people stockpiling. In fact, I do it to a certain degree. I will get handfuls of toothbrushes for free. I will keep 2-4 to use in our house and donate the others to our church pantry. Those 2-4 will get us through to the next time there is a sale on toothbrushes. If you're stockpiling until the next sale comes around, that is smart shopping.

If you are buying 50 cans of soup when you already have 120 in your garage, you need help.

I would love to go through and get all of those "free" items that are way too much for that family to eat in several months time and donate them to a local food bank or shelter. Honestly...if God has given you the ability to save money like that, use it to help other people.

So yes, there are times when I snag up free items that our family will never use. I also grab up a few items for pennies that will never be used in our house. Why? Because they are toiletry items or non-perishables that someone in our community can use. And those promptly are taken to our church for use at the pantry that several hundred families use each month.

I found it both interesting and appropriate that Extreme Couponing was followed immediately in TLC's lineup by Hoarding: Buried Alive.

Did you watch? What did you think?

Photo credit: sdc2027

Thursday, April 7, 2011

Our Financial Status - Update #18 - March 2011

Another month has rolled by, so it time to see if February looked any good for our finances. If you are not entertained by this, feel free to return tomorrow for something not quite so "blah" for you. =) If this entertains you, feel free to comment and let me know what you think.

INCOME:
Our income is still lower than it was when Chip was working (duh!), but HOPEFULLY he will get the paperwork that allows him to rejoin the National Guard soon. I have started my etsy shop but my startup costs are currently more than my profits (although not by much!). Soon I should start seeing profits, but I'm taking it slowly since we don't have that much to work with start-up-wise.

UNDER BUDGET:
Doctor: No spending this month, so that put us $25 under budget for the month. Since we had lots of sickness earlier this year though, we're still $50 over our rolling budget. Hopefully we will stay well enough to let that roll on out over the next two months!
Pharmacy: Same deal as the doctor. But that still leaves us $53 over our rolling budgdet. And in March we'll have to pay the bill for the nebulizer that we got for Abigail a few months ago when she was borderline developing pneumonia.
Home Services: $5 under budget...nothing spent. Baby Supplies: $20 under budget. I will be so glad when diapers are out of our lives and we can delete this budget item!
Hair: $25 under budget. No spending this month. March had some spending though, so some of the rolling budget will be used to eat that up. Toiletries: No spending this month, but the rolling budget is $2 over from earlier spending. This will roll out for March.

ON BUDGET:
Auto Insurance: Our insurance was right on target, but here's the good news...it dropped from $88/month to $45/month because we finally dropped full coverage on our old cars. =) So that will be saving us over $500/year. Hooray!
Mobile Phone: On budget. I wish we could cut these costs, but honestly, we have a reasonable plan so I can't complain too much when I hear what some people spend in this area.
Television: On budget. No real news here. Life Insurance: Same old.
Alarm Monitoring: As usual.
Mortgage/HOA: As expected.

OVER BUDGET:
Gas/Fuel: $150 over budget. Ouch. But honestly, it is attributed to the price of gas as well as Chip traveling to rehearsals and performances with an orchestral group he plays with from time to time.
Auto Parts: $73 over budget. This was for a tire when Chip had a flat and had to have one replaced. The overage should roll out of the budget within a few months.
Water/Electricity: $82 over budget. We'll be over again this upcoming month due to a very warm March. Sigh....
Eating Out: $169 over budget. Wow. And we were doing so well at the beginning of the month! You know what though? This entire amount can be contributed to one night out on a really nice date. It was something that we planned to do with some of our tax refund money because we have not been out on a real date in over one year. So, I don't guess it is as bad as it looks. We still could have done better through the rest of the month, though.
Groceries: $59 over budget. Not too mad considering we fed 4 additional people for 7 days (see additional comments section for info about visitors).
Childcare: $25 over budget. We had to buy Abigail a naproll for school. It's required, so that was this overage.
Clothing: The rolling budget finally paid off here! I have $40/month budget, but rarely buy clothes for anyone. Well, this month, I actually spent $153, but that only put us $2 over our rolling budget. Hooray! That, my friend, is how an annual budget is supposed to play out. =)

ADDITIONAL COMMENTS:
  • Miscellaneous Charges not in the Budget: $113 for vet (grrrr); $34 for "amusement" when our company was here...not bad for a family of 4 over a week; $25 for Chip's membership to the American Legion; $4 for parking; $5 for photos ordered at a great deal; and $1.40 spent on a game worth $20 that will be a Christmas gift for Patirck (Yes I think ahead).
  • We used the credit card a few times when we needed get to the next paycheck. So we paid that off. And we paid above the minimum on the two we're paying off.
  • Etsy shop is underway. I spent about $60 during February on start up costs. I have cleared about $50 after fees and supplies. Once I make a few more sales, I will be ordering my business cards and hopefully will be able to make some more profit after that. I may start tracking that venture as its on entity on this updates in the near future.
  • Had some friends and family spend several days with us during March (a total of 7 days between two sets of visitors). So our groceries were higher than normal, but that's to be expected. I'm proud to say that we spent most of that time cooking at the house and eating in instead of out, which is a big change for us with visitors. It was a nice change.


Debt Paid off Since February 2011: $1004.26.
Debt Paid off Since October 14, 2009: $20,163.66
Change in Networth since February 2011: -212.00
(bad month for my 401k so although we made headway on debt, we suffered in retirement funds)
Change in Networth from October 14, 2009: + $40,795.55

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

Win Some of My Candy - LAST DAY!

In case you have missed it previously, there is a giveaway going on right now at Audrey's Giveaways for a 1/2 lb order of my candy from my etsy shop, How Sweet It Is.

Today is the last day to enter. I know lots of you entered when I offered it here, so I didn't want you to miss another chance to win! Hurry before 8 PM (I don't know what time zone that is, so it is best to just go now!).

Why are you still reading?

GO!

Love Drop - Month 4 - The Kahlen Family

Another month has arrived and that means it is time again to report on how the last Love Drop went and tell you about the next one! Katie, a single mom in Dallas who is battling her not only her second two brain tumor so far but who lives with hydrocephalus daily, was the recipient of March's Love Drop. If you want to see how that turned out, I strongly recommend you visit the Love Drop page that has the video of the drop itself. I promise you will be moved by the generosity.

Amazing is the only word I can find to sum up this entire project!

Month 4 is upon us now, though, and April's Love Drop will go to the Kahlen family who have been hit hard by the economy, and by their daughter's serious medical condition - tuberous sclerosis. In addition to financial assistance, we’d like to unite the artistic community to support Kent’s glassmaking work. And as an added twist this month, Love Drop is asking artists to donate an original work of art to auction off on their behalf! It should be great!



Want to help? Here are two ways you can participate:
  1. Give $1.00 - This is the best way to help out and join their team at the same time.
  2. Donate a piece of art - They will be hosting an auction this month, and would love to feature your artwork in it. Proceeds go to help the Kahlen's this month, and is a great way to promote your work :)


So come on and join the fun and give a little. Only a little...it's amazing what a little can do!
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