It's been a long time coming, but I am finally pulling the plug.
This is the end of Mrs Nespy's World.
Over the last week I have been pulling affiliation links, contacting PR firms and cleaning out the blog. After almost 6 years of blogging, I have to now admit that this blog has run its course.
Life changes and although this blog evolved - twice - it is really just time for me to hang my hat and say farewell.
I have pared it down from over 1400 posts to just 330. I left those posts up that were informational, those that still receive traffic because people are looking for information (and they come here for it, which still surprises me), and those that I thought people could use. The rest - they are gone.
I've loved every moment of it (at least until a few months ago when the quality and quantity of posts really starting deteriorating around here), but it is time to go.
I'm still following so many of you and I've made some really good online friends, so I do thank you all for the love (both real and comment) and support you've given over the years.
Until we meet again...
Wednesday, September 4, 2013
Wednesday, May 22, 2013
How Was School Today? How I Got My Kids to Talk to Me.
My son is currently finishing up first grade while my daughter is in the last few days of 3K at the same school. Each day I picked them up I would ask the same questions: How was school today? What did you do? These questions always resulted in the same answers from both of them: Fine. I don't know/nothing.
So I decided to change it up a little and ask them to tell me three things about their day. It always resulted in the same answers, "I got a _____ in conduct," "I ate ____ for lunch," and "I worked on _____." That third one was the only one that was news to me because they always brought home a sheet telling me about their daily conduct, and I packed their lunches.
So this was a good start, but not really the deep, meaningful conversation filled with delight and variety that I was looking for.
Time to change it up again.
So now I ask them each the following question: Tell me a way today that you 1.) worked, 2.) played, and 3.) helped.
This finally gets me the answers I am looking for! These are things I want to hear about their day and the answers usually give me enough information that I can delve further in with questions about details. And if I start getting the same answers day after day, I ask for a different answer ("you've told me that three days in a row now; please give me another example").
It works great with my son and my daughter is picking up on it, although her definition of "helping" is not usually what I'm looking for ("I helped my friends by coming to look at something when they called me.").
What about you? Do you have this same problem with your kids? Have you found a solution that works for your family?
Posted as part of Works for Me Wednesday at We Are THAT Family. Check out the other great tips from other great blogs!
So I decided to change it up a little and ask them to tell me three things about their day. It always resulted in the same answers, "I got a _____ in conduct," "I ate ____ for lunch," and "I worked on _____." That third one was the only one that was news to me because they always brought home a sheet telling me about their daily conduct, and I packed their lunches.
So this was a good start, but not really the deep, meaningful conversation filled with delight and variety that I was looking for.
Time to change it up again.
So now I ask them each the following question: Tell me a way today that you 1.) worked, 2.) played, and 3.) helped.
This finally gets me the answers I am looking for! These are things I want to hear about their day and the answers usually give me enough information that I can delve further in with questions about details. And if I start getting the same answers day after day, I ask for a different answer ("you've told me that three days in a row now; please give me another example").
It works great with my son and my daughter is picking up on it, although her definition of "helping" is not usually what I'm looking for ("I helped my friends by coming to look at something when they called me.").
What about you? Do you have this same problem with your kids? Have you found a solution that works for your family?
Posted as part of Works for Me Wednesday at We Are THAT Family. Check out the other great tips from other great blogs!
Thursday, March 21, 2013
Packing Tips for Disney World
Thanks to Pinterest, I discovered an amazing packing tip. I was directed over to this blog post and thought that packing outfits in a single bag was BRILLIANT for my daughter's clothes! She loves to pick out her own clothes and I knew we could end up battling over not wearing skirts on a cold day or wanting to wear her favorite shirt that she wore yesterday already. So I packed up outfits in gallon sized zip lock bags. Entire outfits: shirt, pants, socks, underwear, and hair accessories all in one baggie. Then she got to pick her clothes - she just got to pick an entire baggie at a time. And packing a change of clothes to take to the parks (just in case) was easy, as I just grabbed an entire bag and dropped it into the backpack we were carrying into the parks.
Pack something like a make up bag full of items to taken into the park. Include sunscreen, lip balm, band aids, antibiotic ointment (yes you can get this in the park at a first aid station, but this is easy enough), a Tide pen (or similar), hand sanitizer, headache and/or allergy meds, antacids, and motion sickness meds. If you wear contacts like I do, you can also pack your glasses and your contact case with contact solution in it in case your eyes get tired and dry from your contacts. Also pack wet wipes.
Pack 1-1/2 outfits per small child per day. This will ensure that you have enough clothes (I hope) for the duration of any accidents or mishaps.
Only pack comfortable and durable shoes for the parks. Do not go in new shoes. Do not go in shoes that EVER rub your feet. Flip flops make your feet work to hold them on and hurt after walking all day in them. Wear sneakers. You will be walking miles. Literally.
Pack all phone chargers, camera chargers, and laptop chargers.
Take a laptop and dump all photos at the end of each day. That way there is no chance you'll run out of room on your memory card before taking another priceless photo of your family.
Take photos (front and back) of your tickets and have them on your phone - or leave them on your camera. Disney can help you out if they can see the bar codes and ticket info on them. Take a pic of the back of your Photo Pass card as well.
Include medicine cabinet items like aloe vera, eye drops, and some foot powder or something along the lines of Gold Bond.
Pack a poncho for each family member. If it start raining some people will leave but the park will stay open.
Pack your own glow sticks and autograph books (and pens). They sell them in the park for far more than you'll pay offsite.
If you possibly have room, pack your own (not umbrella) stroller. You'll want the storage that it offers and the Disney ones come with a hefty deposit.
Pack items to entertain kids while in line. Bubbles are great as well as small books or games on your phone. Try some pipe cleaners - cheap and leaves them open to using their imagination. Waiting is hard even when you're 30. Imagine your 3 again and think of the people around you in line.
If you want to do the Pressed Penny thing (seriously...our son really got into this), intentionally pack two quarters and a penny together. You can put them together like that in rolled quarter papers or in a canister like mini M&Ms come in so you aren't always digging in your pockets for change. If you're really into it, you can buy a penny collector book at Disney World (I saw them in Ye Olde Christmas Shoppe in the Magic Kingdom, but you can probably find them elsewhere too).
Pack a water bottle. Counter service and Table Service restaurants will refill them for free.
What have I missed? What are your packing tips?
Wednesday, March 20, 2013
Tips to Make Disney World Fun for the Whole Family
There are tips galore all around the internet on how to make your vacation to Disney World the best ever. Trust me - I think I perused all of them. After doing that, I picked the ones that would (hopefully) work for us and made up some just for us. Here are those tips so that you might can use some too.
Pick the right time for you. We used this excellent WDW planning tool to plan the "when" of our trip and nailed it.
The Dining Plans are great on the budget. But they might not work for you. Or you might decide to stay off site, where you would not be eligible for the Dining Plan. Check out this post on our spending to find out why the Dining Plan would not have been our best bet.
Keep your eyes peeled for open lines. For tickets and security, people (for some reason) seem to act like cattle and follow one person. Ironically, one of the busiest places on earth has open lines to get into the parks and to go through security because of this. If you see a turnstile with a cast member at it, don't be afraid to ask. We bypassed about 75 people this way and got to walk into Animal Kingdom as soon as the gate opened because we walked around the one single line that was formed in front of it.
Characters are fun to meet. Have a plan. You'll notice throughout this list of tips that I am a serious planner. It's really the only way I know how to function - especially now that I have two awesome kids to monitor. You can visit Disney's website and use the interactive maps for each park to find out where each character is located and what time(s) of day they will be available on the very day you will be there. If meeting a character is important to you, make a note of this and make sure you get there in time. If you just happen upon characters, you'll find a real treat, but if meeting one (or more) is important to you or someone in your party, make sure you don't miss them, as they are not all available all day.
Rides are fun too. Have a plan. If you have a ride enthusiast, make sure you have a plan for those people too. Don't be afraid to split up your party if you need to. The modern miracle of mobile phones make it easy to split up and reunite again. Split up to ride things and visit characters at the same time or to run out to grab a Fast Pass for your favorite ride(s).
Get a customized map for Disney. Did you know you can get a map customized? Whether you want to get one before your trip highlighting all of the places you MUST visit (and therefore leaving off those you can skip) or you want to get one after your trip highlighting your trip's joy so you can frame, grab one up!
GPS your parking spot. We tested this just to see if it would work. And it did! Chip's phone lead us right back to our car. =) If you don't want to or cannot do this with your phone, at least take a photo of the name of your row (Aladdin 53, anyone?) so you have it in case you DO forget. =)
Utilize the Fast Pass system. There are other sites that describe this system better than I can, but just in summary - a Fast Pass is a ticket that allows you to come back later within an assigned window of time, to step right onto those rides with long lines. If you get to a busy ride early before it gets too busy, you can always get a Fast Pass to use later and then go ahead and board it now to ride immediately. Just remember that you can only hold one Fast Pass per park ticket at a time, so use them wisely.
Fast Passes DO expire. I saw tips around the internet noting that although Fast Passes indicate a window of time that you should use them, as long as you don't arrive early for your Fast Pass, you can come as late as you want. I listened to their advice and while that was obviously their experience, it was not ours. We tried to use Fast Passes for Soarin' in Epcot as our last thing to do before leaving the park while we'd gotten the passes much earlier in the day. Chip and Patrick were turned away because the ticket had expired. So the tip here is try to get there around the right time (but not early) or hope for a forgiving ticket taker.
Utilize the Rider Swap. I learned about this while researching for this trip and taught at least 3 families about it while at Disney World. This is obviously not something that Disney widely advertises, but they do it and it works WONDERS. The Rider Swap is for a family who has children who do want to ride larger rides with height restrictions and children who cannot or will not ride the same large rides. It works either while riding Stand By or with a Fast Pass. Basically whenever you are actually going to board the ride, you take the riders as well as the additional family members (including those who won't/can't ride) to the line like you will board and tell the cast member at the head of that line that you want to do a "Rider Swap." They will reach into their pocket and pull out what looks like a single Fast Pass ticket and hand it to the non-riding (at that time) adult. The Rider Swap does not have a window of time on it. In other words, you can use it at any time for up to three people to board that ride via the Fast Pass. For example, we would let Chip and Patrick ride an attraction while I was handed the Rider Swap ticket since Abigail could not ride it. Chip and Patrick would board. Once they got off, Patrick and I could re-board, either immediately or later in the day, allowing both parents to ride and Patrick to ride twice. It was awesome!
Utilize Rider Swaps and Fast Passes together. Like I said, you can use a Rider Swap whether you are riding stand by or via Fast Pass. And since you can only hold one Fast Pass per ticket, we would go use two tickets to get a Fast Pass at one attraction and the other two tickets to get a Fast Pass at another ride. Then when we were ready to ride, we'd show up during the Fast Pass time, and do a Rider Swap there. You can either then ride it immediately or come back later, since they don't expire. Then go grab your other Fast Pass time and presto - super Fast Pass/Rider Swap use. Find what works for you and do it!
Fun for the littles too! There are some play areas you should be aware of. Animal Kingdom has a huge play area in Dinoland USA called The Boneyard, but there are other playground type areas not on the map. Inside the gift shop of Mission Space is a playground that will keep the little ones entertained while the riders enjoy that ride and/or Test Track. There is a playground between Splash Mountain and Big Thunder Mountain Railroad underneath the bridge you encounter when walking towards the train station. There is also a big play area near Dumbo where you can play while you wait. This is great for when other party members are riding those two larger rides.
Bring food and drinks into the parks. Seriously - Disney doesn't mind. We saved big money this way and we were NOT the only ones doing it. Take advantage of the savings and spend your money on souvenirs or Mickey Mouse ice cream sandwiches.
Plan your eating - especially if you have a picky eater. We have one child who is a picky eater. I will brag on Disney for having healthy kids meals though. Their standard sides with kids' meals are not chips or fries, but rather yogurt, carrot sticks, grapes and applesauce. Good stuff. But not wanting to get caught somewhere in the park scanning each menu we came across to see if our picky eater would/could eat there, we checked out all of the dining options in each park and took in a list of those eateries that would be acceptable with a list of each food they would eat under the name of the eatery. That way, we could determine where we would be around time to eat and give the child options of food they could eat and pick our restaurant knowingly. Although it took some time to research, it was time well spent, as we did not waste time in the park looking for a particular fare - we already knew what we were getting into.
Splurge on the special things. Make sure you have a few special items. Whether it is souvenirs, a special meal or an activity - this is Disney World people and each visit should be memorable.
Try out the Agent P's World Showcase Adventure at Epcot. This is new and based on the awesome cartoon Phineas and Ferb and their lovable pet/secret agent, Perry the Platypus. Basically you are given a cell phone with GPS and a series of clues and you have to tour a designated country in Epcot to locate all of the clues. You really don't get a prize or anything, but it is free to do, takes a bit of time, helps you really explore the country, and gives the kids something to do in a part of Epcot that kids often find yawn-worthy.
Try out Sorcerers of the Magic Kingdom. This was a great interactive card battling game similar to Pokemon or the like. But in this version, you have a key card, a map, and a set of instructions that leads you all over the Magic Kingdom to fight villains with a plethora of spell cards you purchase. You can do this at your own pace over a series of days if you are in the park for more than one day. Patrick thoroughly enjoyed doing this while Abigail was more interested in seeing characters. Just more proof that Disney really thinks of something for EVERYONE.
Let Disney photographers use your camera. Sure you can do the Photo Pass system (do both!), but the same photographer who takes the PhotoPass photo will also take the same photo with your personal camera. So don't worry about HAVING to buy Disney photos, although you can if you want!
Never be afraid to ask. When we watched the opening show for the Magic Kingdom, one of the costumed characters that arrived on the train with Mickey (you should see the opening at the park at least once if you never have) was Stitch - Patrick's favorite Disney character. However, looking at the maps and even at the interactive maps on the internet, there was no indication that you could meet Stitch anywhere in the park. We thought it was strange to have a costumed character who did not make appearances, so we asked and sure enough - you COULD meet and greet Stitch. The cast member pointed us right where we needed to go. I felt bad for Stitch because there was no indication that you could find him anywhere in the park and so his lines were next to nothing, but we benefitted because we asked, and Patrick got to meet the only character he really cared to meet.
Label Your Children if they are small or have special needs. Sounds crazy, right? It's easy, write on their arms with a sharpie or use a nifty item like SafetyTats (which is what we did). Also, take a photo of them with your phone each morning. Having it on your phone instead of your camera will allow you to text it to security or police and taking one each day will show authorities not only a recent photo of your child, but what they were wearing when they disappeared (have them take one with coats/hats/etc and one without just in case). Teach them to find someone with a Disney name tag if you get separated.
Start off with Face Characters for Little Ones. Little ones who think that these characters are all real are usually intimidated by the fur characters the first time. Mickey Mouse is 5-1/2 feet tall rather than the size of a mouse. Big active faces full of expression and far taller than them is a lot to take in. Warm the little ones up by meeting "face" characters like Mary Poppins, Alice, the princesses, and the like. It will help them get used to seeing their heroes and they will probably see some fur characters off to the side as well, helping them get acclimated to the idea of them.
Don't be afraid to take a nap. If little ones (or even big ones) are getting fussy, feel free to go back to your room and take a nap. If you are staying on site, getting back in is easy. If you are staying off site, parking is already paid for the day (right - you don't have to pay again if you leave and re-enter or if you change parks). And having a rested little one will make your entire experience much better. Remember - it's better to have an enjoyable time in the park even if it is shorter rather than forcing fun on them and having them (and therefore, you) miserable.
Know all your options. With this era of the internet, there is pretty much nothing you cannot find out about Disney World - the Disney website being your main source of info. For instance, I was bummed when I found out the princess meals at Magic Kingdom were all booked up for all four days we would be in the area. After a bit of looking around at the website though, I found that there are princess meals in Epcot - with all of the big-name princesses (are there any other type) and as a bonus - it is the only one that includes the photo as part of your bill. Bonus!
Dine with characters early. We benefitted several ways with this tip. First of all, when we arrived for our 8:10 breakfast in Epcot (where the park does not even open until 9:00 AM), our parking was free. What? Was this normal or a fluke? I have no idea. I know when we pulled up to the green-lit parking booth entrance there was a sign on it that said, "Proceed to your destination." so we got to park for free that day! Woo hoo! Then we were allowed into the park to go to breakfast where we took an early-morning photo of the kids in front of Spaceship Earth (you know...the big Epcot ball) without any other people in the pic! We also got a lot of other photos while walking back to Norway without any crowds in them. Breakfast is typically less expensive than other character meals and there are no fewer characters. Lastly, we finished breakfast around 9:00 and were already in the park while others were just arriving and fighting through the ticket turnstiles. Needless to say, we were able to knock out Mission Space, Test Track and a few others pretty early.
Know that Disney replaces souvenirs purchased during your vacation. Even if it isn't truly faulty but your fault. We allowed Patrick to build his own light sabre at Hollywood Studios. Within 10 minutes, Chip had broken it. He quickly returned to the store they built it at, and they replaced the broken part for free. Hooray!
Don't be afraid of missing something. Unless you have many, many days to spend at Disney, you WILL miss out on some part(s) of the parks. It's okay. It really is. I understand if this is a once-in-a-lifetime type trip that you want to do EVERYTHING, but don't stress out if everything doesn't go as planned. Remember you're on vacation. Your family wants to remember the fun, not mom pulling her hair out because you didn't make it onto the Riverboat Cruise.
Divide and conquer. Face it. Not everyone is interested in everything. It's okay. Split your adults up to take the kids to the locations that they want to see the most. The girly girl might want to see the princesses while the rough and tumble boy might love the caves on Tom Sawyer's Island. The ride enthusiast will want to hit space mountain while the toddler wants to ride Prince Charming's Carousel over and over again. Use this tip and the one above to make EVERYONE'S dreams come true at Disney.
Be a kid. I don't care how old you are, there is no reason to be serious at Disney World. Sing along in It's a Small World, have you picture taken with your favorite character(s), buy yourself a set of mouse ears or a tiara (I promise you won't be the only adult wearing them), throw your hands up on a roller coaster, dance during the parades. There is nothing you can do at Disney that will look silly. I promise.
How do you make the most of your trip to Disney World? Please share! If you're looking for how to save on a Disney vacation, I wrote on that yesterday. And come back tomorrow for some special packing tips!
Pick the right time for you. We used this excellent WDW planning tool to plan the "when" of our trip and nailed it. The Dining Plans are great on the budget. But they might not work for you. Or you might decide to stay off site, where you would not be eligible for the Dining Plan. Check out this post on our spending to find out why the Dining Plan would not have been our best bet.
Keep your eyes peeled for open lines. For tickets and security, people (for some reason) seem to act like cattle and follow one person. Ironically, one of the busiest places on earth has open lines to get into the parks and to go through security because of this. If you see a turnstile with a cast member at it, don't be afraid to ask. We bypassed about 75 people this way and got to walk into Animal Kingdom as soon as the gate opened because we walked around the one single line that was formed in front of it.
Characters are fun to meet. Have a plan. You'll notice throughout this list of tips that I am a serious planner. It's really the only way I know how to function - especially now that I have two awesome kids to monitor. You can visit Disney's website and use the interactive maps for each park to find out where each character is located and what time(s) of day they will be available on the very day you will be there. If meeting a character is important to you, make a note of this and make sure you get there in time. If you just happen upon characters, you'll find a real treat, but if meeting one (or more) is important to you or someone in your party, make sure you don't miss them, as they are not all available all day.
Rides are fun too. Have a plan. If you have a ride enthusiast, make sure you have a plan for those people too. Don't be afraid to split up your party if you need to. The modern miracle of mobile phones make it easy to split up and reunite again. Split up to ride things and visit characters at the same time or to run out to grab a Fast Pass for your favorite ride(s).
Get a customized map for Disney. Did you know you can get a map customized? Whether you want to get one before your trip highlighting all of the places you MUST visit (and therefore leaving off those you can skip) or you want to get one after your trip highlighting your trip's joy so you can frame, grab one up!
GPS your parking spot. We tested this just to see if it would work. And it did! Chip's phone lead us right back to our car. =) If you don't want to or cannot do this with your phone, at least take a photo of the name of your row (Aladdin 53, anyone?) so you have it in case you DO forget. =)
Utilize the Fast Pass system. There are other sites that describe this system better than I can, but just in summary - a Fast Pass is a ticket that allows you to come back later within an assigned window of time, to step right onto those rides with long lines. If you get to a busy ride early before it gets too busy, you can always get a Fast Pass to use later and then go ahead and board it now to ride immediately. Just remember that you can only hold one Fast Pass per park ticket at a time, so use them wisely.
Fast Passes DO expire. I saw tips around the internet noting that although Fast Passes indicate a window of time that you should use them, as long as you don't arrive early for your Fast Pass, you can come as late as you want. I listened to their advice and while that was obviously their experience, it was not ours. We tried to use Fast Passes for Soarin' in Epcot as our last thing to do before leaving the park while we'd gotten the passes much earlier in the day. Chip and Patrick were turned away because the ticket had expired. So the tip here is try to get there around the right time (but not early) or hope for a forgiving ticket taker.
Utilize the Rider Swap. I learned about this while researching for this trip and taught at least 3 families about it while at Disney World. This is obviously not something that Disney widely advertises, but they do it and it works WONDERS. The Rider Swap is for a family who has children who do want to ride larger rides with height restrictions and children who cannot or will not ride the same large rides. It works either while riding Stand By or with a Fast Pass. Basically whenever you are actually going to board the ride, you take the riders as well as the additional family members (including those who won't/can't ride) to the line like you will board and tell the cast member at the head of that line that you want to do a "Rider Swap." They will reach into their pocket and pull out what looks like a single Fast Pass ticket and hand it to the non-riding (at that time) adult. The Rider Swap does not have a window of time on it. In other words, you can use it at any time for up to three people to board that ride via the Fast Pass. For example, we would let Chip and Patrick ride an attraction while I was handed the Rider Swap ticket since Abigail could not ride it. Chip and Patrick would board. Once they got off, Patrick and I could re-board, either immediately or later in the day, allowing both parents to ride and Patrick to ride twice. It was awesome!
Utilize Rider Swaps and Fast Passes together. Like I said, you can use a Rider Swap whether you are riding stand by or via Fast Pass. And since you can only hold one Fast Pass per ticket, we would go use two tickets to get a Fast Pass at one attraction and the other two tickets to get a Fast Pass at another ride. Then when we were ready to ride, we'd show up during the Fast Pass time, and do a Rider Swap there. You can either then ride it immediately or come back later, since they don't expire. Then go grab your other Fast Pass time and presto - super Fast Pass/Rider Swap use. Find what works for you and do it!
Fun for the littles too! There are some play areas you should be aware of. Animal Kingdom has a huge play area in Dinoland USA called The Boneyard, but there are other playground type areas not on the map. Inside the gift shop of Mission Space is a playground that will keep the little ones entertained while the riders enjoy that ride and/or Test Track. There is a playground between Splash Mountain and Big Thunder Mountain Railroad underneath the bridge you encounter when walking towards the train station. There is also a big play area near Dumbo where you can play while you wait. This is great for when other party members are riding those two larger rides.
Bring food and drinks into the parks. Seriously - Disney doesn't mind. We saved big money this way and we were NOT the only ones doing it. Take advantage of the savings and spend your money on souvenirs or Mickey Mouse ice cream sandwiches.
Plan your eating - especially if you have a picky eater. We have one child who is a picky eater. I will brag on Disney for having healthy kids meals though. Their standard sides with kids' meals are not chips or fries, but rather yogurt, carrot sticks, grapes and applesauce. Good stuff. But not wanting to get caught somewhere in the park scanning each menu we came across to see if our picky eater would/could eat there, we checked out all of the dining options in each park and took in a list of those eateries that would be acceptable with a list of each food they would eat under the name of the eatery. That way, we could determine where we would be around time to eat and give the child options of food they could eat and pick our restaurant knowingly. Although it took some time to research, it was time well spent, as we did not waste time in the park looking for a particular fare - we already knew what we were getting into.
Splurge on the special things. Make sure you have a few special items. Whether it is souvenirs, a special meal or an activity - this is Disney World people and each visit should be memorable.
Try out the Agent P's World Showcase Adventure at Epcot. This is new and based on the awesome cartoon Phineas and Ferb and their lovable pet/secret agent, Perry the Platypus. Basically you are given a cell phone with GPS and a series of clues and you have to tour a designated country in Epcot to locate all of the clues. You really don't get a prize or anything, but it is free to do, takes a bit of time, helps you really explore the country, and gives the kids something to do in a part of Epcot that kids often find yawn-worthy.
Try out Sorcerers of the Magic Kingdom. This was a great interactive card battling game similar to Pokemon or the like. But in this version, you have a key card, a map, and a set of instructions that leads you all over the Magic Kingdom to fight villains with a plethora of spell cards you purchase. You can do this at your own pace over a series of days if you are in the park for more than one day. Patrick thoroughly enjoyed doing this while Abigail was more interested in seeing characters. Just more proof that Disney really thinks of something for EVERYONE.
Let Disney photographers use your camera. Sure you can do the Photo Pass system (do both!), but the same photographer who takes the PhotoPass photo will also take the same photo with your personal camera. So don't worry about HAVING to buy Disney photos, although you can if you want! Never be afraid to ask. When we watched the opening show for the Magic Kingdom, one of the costumed characters that arrived on the train with Mickey (you should see the opening at the park at least once if you never have) was Stitch - Patrick's favorite Disney character. However, looking at the maps and even at the interactive maps on the internet, there was no indication that you could meet Stitch anywhere in the park. We thought it was strange to have a costumed character who did not make appearances, so we asked and sure enough - you COULD meet and greet Stitch. The cast member pointed us right where we needed to go. I felt bad for Stitch because there was no indication that you could find him anywhere in the park and so his lines were next to nothing, but we benefitted because we asked, and Patrick got to meet the only character he really cared to meet.
Label Your Children if they are small or have special needs. Sounds crazy, right? It's easy, write on their arms with a sharpie or use a nifty item like SafetyTats (which is what we did). Also, take a photo of them with your phone each morning. Having it on your phone instead of your camera will allow you to text it to security or police and taking one each day will show authorities not only a recent photo of your child, but what they were wearing when they disappeared (have them take one with coats/hats/etc and one without just in case). Teach them to find someone with a Disney name tag if you get separated.
Start off with Face Characters for Little Ones. Little ones who think that these characters are all real are usually intimidated by the fur characters the first time. Mickey Mouse is 5-1/2 feet tall rather than the size of a mouse. Big active faces full of expression and far taller than them is a lot to take in. Warm the little ones up by meeting "face" characters like Mary Poppins, Alice, the princesses, and the like. It will help them get used to seeing their heroes and they will probably see some fur characters off to the side as well, helping them get acclimated to the idea of them.
Don't be afraid to take a nap. If little ones (or even big ones) are getting fussy, feel free to go back to your room and take a nap. If you are staying on site, getting back in is easy. If you are staying off site, parking is already paid for the day (right - you don't have to pay again if you leave and re-enter or if you change parks). And having a rested little one will make your entire experience much better. Remember - it's better to have an enjoyable time in the park even if it is shorter rather than forcing fun on them and having them (and therefore, you) miserable.
Know all your options. With this era of the internet, there is pretty much nothing you cannot find out about Disney World - the Disney website being your main source of info. For instance, I was bummed when I found out the princess meals at Magic Kingdom were all booked up for all four days we would be in the area. After a bit of looking around at the website though, I found that there are princess meals in Epcot - with all of the big-name princesses (are there any other type) and as a bonus - it is the only one that includes the photo as part of your bill. Bonus!
Dine with characters early. We benefitted several ways with this tip. First of all, when we arrived for our 8:10 breakfast in Epcot (where the park does not even open until 9:00 AM), our parking was free. What? Was this normal or a fluke? I have no idea. I know when we pulled up to the green-lit parking booth entrance there was a sign on it that said, "Proceed to your destination." so we got to park for free that day! Woo hoo! Then we were allowed into the park to go to breakfast where we took an early-morning photo of the kids in front of Spaceship Earth (you know...the big Epcot ball) without any other people in the pic! We also got a lot of other photos while walking back to Norway without any crowds in them. Breakfast is typically less expensive than other character meals and there are no fewer characters. Lastly, we finished breakfast around 9:00 and were already in the park while others were just arriving and fighting through the ticket turnstiles. Needless to say, we were able to knock out Mission Space, Test Track and a few others pretty early.
Know that Disney replaces souvenirs purchased during your vacation. Even if it isn't truly faulty but your fault. We allowed Patrick to build his own light sabre at Hollywood Studios. Within 10 minutes, Chip had broken it. He quickly returned to the store they built it at, and they replaced the broken part for free. Hooray!
Don't be afraid of missing something. Unless you have many, many days to spend at Disney, you WILL miss out on some part(s) of the parks. It's okay. It really is. I understand if this is a once-in-a-lifetime type trip that you want to do EVERYTHING, but don't stress out if everything doesn't go as planned. Remember you're on vacation. Your family wants to remember the fun, not mom pulling her hair out because you didn't make it onto the Riverboat Cruise.
Divide and conquer. Face it. Not everyone is interested in everything. It's okay. Split your adults up to take the kids to the locations that they want to see the most. The girly girl might want to see the princesses while the rough and tumble boy might love the caves on Tom Sawyer's Island. The ride enthusiast will want to hit space mountain while the toddler wants to ride Prince Charming's Carousel over and over again. Use this tip and the one above to make EVERYONE'S dreams come true at Disney.
Be a kid. I don't care how old you are, there is no reason to be serious at Disney World. Sing along in It's a Small World, have you picture taken with your favorite character(s), buy yourself a set of mouse ears or a tiara (I promise you won't be the only adult wearing them), throw your hands up on a roller coaster, dance during the parades. There is nothing you can do at Disney that will look silly. I promise.
How do you make the most of your trip to Disney World? Please share! If you're looking for how to save on a Disney vacation, I wrote on that yesterday. And come back tomorrow for some special packing tips!
Tuesday, March 19, 2013
Some Tips for Doing Disney World on the Cheap
We paid for this trip in cash; although we rarely vacation as a family, this was definitely a first. And let me add here that it was purely REFRESHING to carry cash around all day and know that when we left at the end of the week, there would be no spending regrets, no bills awaiting us at home, and nothing but fond memories to look back on.
Our family of 4 spent four days in the Walt Disney World complex of real estate for only $1500.
Yep. That's all. It included one (relatively) expensive lunch and a costly character breakfast. AND we ended up "blowing" some money in the end because we had it set aside and were allowed to spend it. And I'm about to tell you how we did it.
Before I do, let me start by saying that many of these tips are not available to everyone. Many of these tips are only available to a few, but they heavily contributed to our savings, so I will tell you how we did it. Use whatever info you can use and save where you can!
Travel
This one was easy for us. We live a mere 4 hours drive from Orlando, so we did not have to factor in plane tickets or nights in hotels along the drive. I literally worked until lunch and then we left with time to meet up with friends and see their son play baseball and have dinner with them.
And shockingly, because I have such a long commute to work (about 35 miles each way) and the fact that we were only driving one vehicle during those 4-5 days, we actually spent less on gasoline than we do in a typical week, so we actually saved money here too. Crazy!
Lodging
This is one of those decisions that you have to make for yourself. Is it worth it to stay on property and pay a little more, yet have Magic Hours and easy access (no parking fees) to the parks? Do you want to depend on your off-site hotel's shuttle? Do you want to pay parking? We considered several different options. At first, we were planning to stay at Shades of Green, the Disney World resort available to service members and their families. The rates there are lower than the other resorts and based on the rank of the person in the military. For us, it would have been approximately $90/night or closer to $100/night for breakfast included. Not a bad price.
However, Chip worked in the travel and tourism industry for years and has connections. He contacted a friend who hooked us up with her special rate at an offsite hotel for $55/night. We were less than 4 miles from the gate. The hotel offered a limited continental breakfast for free and a shuttle to the park. We, however, did not want to depend on that shuttle's schedule or reliability, so we opted to pay for parking each day. It costs $14/day. Even with parking, we were paying less than $70/night to stay off site, so we decided to go that route. So four nights at the hotel + 4 days of parking: $266.
Even if you don't have a friend with connections, consider how much you'll spend/save including parking and decide if it is worth your time and money. Totally a personal decision.
Tickets
Here is another savings for military personnel. We purchased our tickets at our local base, but you can purchase them by mail or at Shades of Green with proper identification. We got four 4-day park hoppers for $156.00 each (add tax if you order them via mail). Please note that you CANNOT purchase these at the parks, so make sure you have them in hand when you arrive. Also know that they will take about 10-20 minutes to validate them at the park before the first time you use them. After that, some parks require a special scan of the tickets, but they do that at the turnstiles and there is no hassle. In fact, the cast members who take them and scan them each time thanked my husband for his service very sincerely, so it was nice.
Anyway, so we spent $624 on tickets for the four of us. Not too shabby! (FYI...Buying the same tickets at the gate would have cost us $1239.68; we saved $615.68 or almost 50%!). Once again, this isn't a discount that everyone can take, but those who can definitely should.
Food
We were not eligible for the meal plan option that so many people rave about since we did not stay on site, but after looking at our options, I think we ended up MUCH better anyway! I budgeted $450 for food and we NAILED it!
Our breakfast each morning (with the exception of the character breakfast) at the hotel via the free continental breakfast. Not too shabby and definitely got the job done.
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| Shady spot to eat; Abigail chooses her juice box. |
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| Abigail and her favorite princess, Ariel, at breakfast |
The second larger meal was at the Rainforest Cafe in Animal Kingdom. It is true that you can eat at a Rainforest Cafe in locations other than the Animal Kingdom; in fact, there is another at Downtown Disney. However, our kids had never seen one, so we opted to go to the largest one, located in the park, for lunch. It was a blast. And we HAD to order the $16 dessert, as we were told that we would regret NOT ordering it if we didn't. It didn't stand a chance against us. We spent a hefty $85 on this meal (including tip) and enjoyed every bite - for me mostly because it was budgeted and I didn't have to worry about it. =)
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| For reference - that plate is larger than a dinner plate. |
For all eating, including meals on the road, groceries to pack for the park, hot chocolate in the park for the fireworks, snacks in Epcot, and the big meals, we spent $440 on food.
Souvenirs
We had budgeted $200 for souvenirs. I honestly thought that was overdoing it, but decided to put it there and use any money from this area if we went over our food budget. Once we saw how well we were doing with our food budget, we decided to let our kids pick one "prize" from each park to take home. We could have saved more money by not offering this option, but we had it set aside and let's face it - it was a great chance for them to pick out toys, which is not something we typically buy a lot of.
Patrick chose a Perry the Platypus from Epcot ($15), a Yeti from Animal Kingdom ($14) to commemorate his riding the Expedition Everest, a custom-made light sabre from Hollywood Studios ($24), and a Stitch (his FAVORITE Disney character) plush from Magic Kingdom ($25). Abigail chose an Agent P from Epcot ($15), a Simba from Animal Kingdom ($15), an Ariel/Aurora princess combo doll from Hollywood Studios ($32), and a Merida action figure doll from Magic Kingdom ($22). We also had to buy Abigail some mouse ears (Patrick owned some from his last trip when he was 3), which we spent $21 on, after embroidery.
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| Snoozing with Simba and Merida |
All in all, we spent $183 on their souvenirs and I must say - it's been almost 2 full weeks and they are ALL still getting played with. Sure, we could have saved more in this area, but we'd budgeted for it and had the cash in hand for a full four days of memories, so we spent it and enjoyed it!
TOTAL
Add those up, and we spent $1513 on a four-day trip to Disney World complete with exhaustion, sore feet, wind burn (it was unusually chilly when we went), laughs, smiles, characters, joy, exhilaration, and pure awe at the experience. Since I budgeted $1534, based on known lodging and ticket cost, we will call this a massive success!
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| So tired - you can see Stitch, the Yeti, and Perry's beak underneath. Oh - and there's the light sabre handle in the floor. |
Wednesday, February 13, 2013
Do You Tithe Your Tax Refund?
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So that being said, we just got our tax refund back last week (I know, early, right?). It was awesome. And as I was writing out the amount of our tithe that week the question occurred to me...am I to tithe this? I mean, it is a blessing to get the refund in the first place. However, since this is money I overpaid the government, haven't I already tithed the portion associated with this money?
So I did not tithe the refund.
Don't get my wrong. I know God will bless any gifts so when in doubt, give all you can. = ) This was just a question that crossed my mind in thinking what I was supposed to do.
What do you think? Is this selfish to do? Is it completely selfish of me to even ASK this question? Where do you weigh in on this?
Thursday, January 31, 2013
Health Insurance Changes - $$ Savings!
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Well, starting last week, Chip went on full time duty orders with his National Guard unit and will be for about 18 months at least (hopefully more after that). So we bit the bullet and signed up for Tri-Care, the military's health insurance program. There are various details that go with it, but basically, we dropped all of the medical insurance that I carried at work and kept the vision and dental insurance from my employer (better coverage and quite cheap).
There is no premium cost for Tri-Care. For Chip the program is completely free - he just has to use doctors on base. No co-pays, no deductibles, etc. For us (the family), we pay out of pocket until we reach the $300 family deductible and then standard care is free. Procedures and hospitalizations and whatnot are 20% out of pocket for us. The pharmacy plan is very much like we have now. And the kids and I can still use our current doctors, as they are in the Tri-Care network. Hooray!
And without premiums, we are saving right at $400 (pre-tax) a month; I'm estimating that's about $300 extra to my check (after taxes) each month! So what if we have to meet the $300 deductible...that's still about 11 months (after tax) savings...or somewhere between $3000 and $4000 saved after taxes.
Wow.
I could seriously find something good to do with $300/month. For now it will go to debt repayment. Then to building a sturdy savings account. After that? Who knows?
I noted that if for some reason the care is terrible we would go back to my insurance next January (when they have open enrollment at work), but otherwise, this is the route we're going for now.
What would you do with an extra $300/month?
Monday, January 21, 2013
In Remembrance
Today many people are celebrating the birthday of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. by being off work, just as I am. But there are many more (many of whom do not even fully appreciate it) who are celebrating today by living a life of freedom. Many people today have liberties that were not afforded to their grandparents and great-grandparents thanks to the leadership of this man and many others like him.
Dr. King paved the way for equality to voices that were not previously heard. He just asked for the simple right to be treated equally to others who happened to be born of a different parentage and ethnicity. His work was courageous, Godly, and inspirational. Some of his recorded quotes are as follows:
Let us take a moment to remember all of those who have fought as well as those who are still fighting worldwide for the right to equality. If you feel so inspired, find a voice that needs to be heard (the sick, the dying, the children, the hungry, the thirsty, the oppressed, the abused, the neglected, the afraid, the lonely, the elderly, the lost), and fight for them. Fight for those who do not have a voice.
Dr. King paved the way for equality to voices that were not previously heard. He just asked for the simple right to be treated equally to others who happened to be born of a different parentage and ethnicity. His work was courageous, Godly, and inspirational. Some of his recorded quotes are as follows:
- Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that.
- The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.
- A man who won't die for something is not fit to live.
- I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.
- Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.
- I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.
- An individual has not started living until he can rise above the narrow confines of his individualistic concerns to the broader concerns of all humanity.
- In the End, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends.
- History will have to record that the greatest tragedy of this period of social transition was not the strident clamor of the bad people, but the appalling silence of the good people.
- Human progress is neither automatic nor inevitable... Every step toward the goal of justice requires sacrifice, suffering, and struggle; the tireless exertions and passionate concern of dedicated individuals.
- Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.
Amazing how his words still ring true today for so many.
Tuesday, September 11, 2012
11 Years Ago Today - What'sYour Story?
Today is the anniversary of one of those days that everyone remembers where they were when the news reached their ears.
For me, I was at work. Due to a cell phone restriction in the facility where I worked, none of the regular employees got a call from home informing us of the tragedy and ongoing drama unfolding on the televisions at home.
However, we had a technician in our building who was there to work on a piece of equipment we were having problems with. He received the call. He was standing next to me when the call came through. We immediately tried to log onto a news website, but they were all jammed up with traffic and minute-by-minute breaking news updates.
I called the guy in charge of our entire facility, and he was able to get in touch with his wife. I called Chip, who I was engage to at the time - just a month away from marrying - and we talked through his tears as he described what he was seeing live on TV.
We spoke with our company's home office, just one hour's drive from NYC, to see if we could glean any additional news, but they didn't seem to know any more than we did.
We stopped work and had a meeting with all of the employees to tell them everything we knew - everything that the news was reporting at that time. It was a day that work continued, but not like any other day. We were all walking around in a fog trying to wrap our minds around the horrific events that had been described to us.
We were unaware just how much life had changed. We knew our sense of what was right and what we had assumed to be true was rocked, but it would take a few days - even weeks - for us to really realize the horrors of the world we live in. We would, however, also get to see the beauty of humanity as people opened their arms and hearts to complete strangers both next door and on the opposite side of the world.
This morning as I described the events of this day 11 years ago to our 6 year old (in terms that I hoped he could understand), I was reminded not only of the fear that gripped me that day, but in the faith in humanity reaching out to one another in the face of a travesty. I was reminded not only of the evil that exists, but also of the good.
For the sake of those lost on this day in 2001 and in the days to follow, I hope that the goodness it was endures.
Where were you on that fateful day? What is your story?
For me, I was at work. Due to a cell phone restriction in the facility where I worked, none of the regular employees got a call from home informing us of the tragedy and ongoing drama unfolding on the televisions at home.
However, we had a technician in our building who was there to work on a piece of equipment we were having problems with. He received the call. He was standing next to me when the call came through. We immediately tried to log onto a news website, but they were all jammed up with traffic and minute-by-minute breaking news updates.
I called the guy in charge of our entire facility, and he was able to get in touch with his wife. I called Chip, who I was engage to at the time - just a month away from marrying - and we talked through his tears as he described what he was seeing live on TV.
We spoke with our company's home office, just one hour's drive from NYC, to see if we could glean any additional news, but they didn't seem to know any more than we did.
We stopped work and had a meeting with all of the employees to tell them everything we knew - everything that the news was reporting at that time. It was a day that work continued, but not like any other day. We were all walking around in a fog trying to wrap our minds around the horrific events that had been described to us.
We were unaware just how much life had changed. We knew our sense of what was right and what we had assumed to be true was rocked, but it would take a few days - even weeks - for us to really realize the horrors of the world we live in. We would, however, also get to see the beauty of humanity as people opened their arms and hearts to complete strangers both next door and on the opposite side of the world.
This morning as I described the events of this day 11 years ago to our 6 year old (in terms that I hoped he could understand), I was reminded not only of the fear that gripped me that day, but in the faith in humanity reaching out to one another in the face of a travesty. I was reminded not only of the evil that exists, but also of the good.
For the sake of those lost on this day in 2001 and in the days to follow, I hope that the goodness it was endures.
Where were you on that fateful day? What is your story?
Thursday, September 6, 2012
Pants Without Pockets - WHY?!
This will be a short rant.
I have been frustrated by this situation for a while now, but I am not feeling well today, so darn it - I'm going to complain about something.
Why, oh why, do they make pants without pockets?
I have several pairs of work pants that have no pocket area (front or back) whatsoever and it drives me up the wall!
I know - some ladies carry purses to work, and frankly I do also carry one - TO work, but not around work. I work in a manufacturing and warehouse environment and it's just not practical to carry my purse around with me all day. What I do need though, is somewhere to stick my keys to the facility, a place to clip the radio that I have to wear, and somewhere to stick a dollar bill for when I need some caffeine in my life.
On those days that I happen to choose pants without pockets are obviously the ones when I usually end up needing them the most.
GRRRRRRR.
Yeah - don't remind me to look for these things while I'm shopping because I never realize I don't have pockets until I need them.
Tell me something that frustrates you today. Let's all gripe together.
I have been frustrated by this situation for a while now, but I am not feeling well today, so darn it - I'm going to complain about something.
Why, oh why, do they make pants without pockets?
I have several pairs of work pants that have no pocket area (front or back) whatsoever and it drives me up the wall!
I know - some ladies carry purses to work, and frankly I do also carry one - TO work, but not around work. I work in a manufacturing and warehouse environment and it's just not practical to carry my purse around with me all day. What I do need though, is somewhere to stick my keys to the facility, a place to clip the radio that I have to wear, and somewhere to stick a dollar bill for when I need some caffeine in my life.
On those days that I happen to choose pants without pockets are obviously the ones when I usually end up needing them the most.
GRRRRRRR.
Yeah - don't remind me to look for these things while I'm shopping because I never realize I don't have pockets until I need them.
Tell me something that frustrates you today. Let's all gripe together.
Thursday, August 23, 2012
Ideas for College Student Care Packages
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So I have vowed to myself that at least once a month, I will be sending our niece something just to lift her spirits and (hopefully) make her smile.
Of course you can always do a themed gift box that includes toiletries, first aid stuff, candy, foodstuff, holiday items, or any other "theme" you can think of. But you can also just throw in a number of things that are in no way related one another, but you just wanted to send.
And being on this website, I cannot go without saying that some of these things you can get for cheap or free because of seasonal purchases, sales, and playing drugstore shopping games. =) Go with what you can find. But if you are looking for some ideas, these are perfect.
Any other good ideas to add to this list? I'll add them to the list! What did you receive at college that was a must have?
Thursday, August 9, 2012
Store Brand vs Name Brand
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There are some products that I cannot differentiate between store brand and name brand. I taste little difference in pasta, milk, breads, canned fruits or vegetables, ethnic food products, and the like. I could not tell you in a blind taste test whose soup, sour cream, or hot dog buns I was eating. No idea whose box that jello was in or what the package of those frozen veggies looked like. Salad dressings? Except for ranch, I have no preferences.
There are other products that I can tell a difference, but don't mind the store brand. Typically fruit juices, sodas, bottled water, potato chips, sliced bread, frozen pizza, frozen french fries.
There are products that I actually prefer the store brand - Publix ice cream, Walmart sandwich cookies, store brand cereal bars, Publix brand yogurt, and others.
But there are a few products that I cannot handle a store brand. Peanut butter, saltine crackers, cheese, ketchup (although strangely, mustard is all the same to me), ranch dressing, buttery crackers, and Oreos.
So that made me want to ask, what about you? Are there some products that you MUST have your preferred name brand? Are there others that you cannot tell a difference? Are there some that you prefer the store brand? Let us all know! You might let us in on some delicious treats for less money!
Friday, July 13, 2012
The Best of 13 Best
In January and April I posted links to 13 articles featuring 13 ways to do things and 13 uses for ordinary items. All in "honor" of Friday the 13th.
Today, the last Friday the 13th of the year (yep...really), we will look at 13 posts that feature the 13 Best of their kind. There were a lot of these to choose from, but the 13 I selected entertained and/or educated me the most. Hope you enjoy!
HEALTH:
The 13 Best Abs Exercises
13 Best Quit-Smoking Tips Ever
The 13 Most Powerful Superfoods
13 Best Outdoor Workouts
BEAUTY:
13 Best Drugstore Hairstyling Products
LIFE:
The 13 Best U.S. Cities for Public Transit
CAREER:
The 13 Best-Paying College Majors
13 Jobs in Hard Times
FUN:
13 Best Grilling Tips
The 13 Best Global Google Doodles
13 Best Places in the U.S. for Wildlife Viewing
Top 13 Best Castles in Wales With Beautiful Pictures
The 13 Best Protest Signs Seen at Occupy Wall Street - this whole movement irritates me, but I can appreciate a good protest sign (even if I don't agree with all of them).
Today, the last Friday the 13th of the year (yep...really), we will look at 13 posts that feature the 13 Best of their kind. There were a lot of these to choose from, but the 13 I selected entertained and/or educated me the most. Hope you enjoy!
HEALTH:
The 13 Best Abs Exercises
13 Best Quit-Smoking Tips Ever
The 13 Most Powerful Superfoods
13 Best Outdoor Workouts
BEAUTY:
13 Best Drugstore Hairstyling Products
LIFE:
The 13 Best U.S. Cities for Public Transit
CAREER:
The 13 Best-Paying College Majors
13 Jobs in Hard Times
FUN:
13 Best Grilling Tips
The 13 Best Global Google Doodles
13 Best Places in the U.S. for Wildlife Viewing
Top 13 Best Castles in Wales With Beautiful Pictures
The 13 Best Protest Signs Seen at Occupy Wall Street - this whole movement irritates me, but I can appreciate a good protest sign (even if I don't agree with all of them).
Monday, July 9, 2012
This is Why We Tithe
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There are many places where you can argue about how much to tithe, whether to tithe, or when to tithe. I'm not here to have that discussion. I'm here to tell you why WE give and how faithful our Father is when we are obedient.
We give
- out of obedience (Honor the Lord with your wealth and with the firstfruits of all your produce Prov 3:9)
- out of worship (Every tithe of the land, whether of the seed of the land or of the fruit of the trees, is the Lord's; it is holy to the Lord. Lev 27:30)
- from our gross income (The firstfruits of your grain, of your wine and of your oil, and the first fleece of your sheep, you shall give him. Deut 18:4)
- a 10% tithe (And this stone, which I have set up for a pillar, shall be God's house. And of all that you give me I will give a full tenth to you. Gen 28:22)
- out of trust (And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Phil 4:19)
- because God not only promised us, He challenged us (Bring the full tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. And thereby put me to the test, says the Lord of hosts, if I will not open the windows of heaven for you and pour down for you a blessing until there is no more need. Mal 3:10)
Anyway...not telling you this to brag that we give. God supplied it to us in the first place, we have nothing to brag about.
I'm telling you that we tithe because I want to show you a beautiful example of God's promise in those last two verses up there fulfilled. Here is the story I've been getting at:
This past month was horrible for our spending. We were truly irresponsible with our money and spent it on a lot of stupid things. It's been a long time since we've been as spendthrift as we were this past month, and it doesn't need to happen again.
But we did tithe this month.
And God (despite our poor stewardship of His blessings) still provided for our needs.
My car has been needing an oil change frequently. Too frequently. We knew there was a small oil leak because of this frequency and because there would be trace amounts of oil in my parking spot in the garage. But it didn't look too big.
A week and a half ago, Chip took it in to the shop to see what was going on. It was a much bigger leak than we knew. A leak to the tune of $500. Yikes! And I knew that we hadn't been as careful with our money as we should have been, but was determined not to put it on our credit cards but to pay for it in cash. Just less money to send to the creditors, I thought.
Last Monday we were on our way to pick up the car and pay the $500 invoice when Chip happened to mention, "Oh...we got a check for $950 from our insurance company today for overpayment of home owner's insurance." What?! That's almost an entire year's bill of insurance and we're getting it back? We are getting back enough to cover our bill AND cover the childcare costs that we will pay while Chip is on orders?!
Man oh man...God is so good!
Do you have an interesting story of God's provision that showed up just when you needed it? I'd love to hear it, so either link to it or leave it in the comments and let's celebrate how good God is!
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Allow Your Daughter to Be a Super Hero - Review
Super heroes are a big deal these days. About 10 years ago Hollywood started bringing every comic book character of any major (or minor) importance to life on the big screen again, and they haven't ceased pounding us with image after image of super heroes.
I grew up with those same heroes and love them.
But you know as I do that most of them are all male.
There are a handful of strong super hero females, but none as powerful and iconic as Wonder Woman!
Our little firecracker princess is a strong personality, and I want her to revel in that and know that being strong (physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically) are traits that we hope she thrives for. Allowing her to "hero worship" a cartoon character at age 3 is one way to allow strong women into her life, even if they are fictional ones.
You can choose this same costume or any other from the girls' superhero costumes options at Costume Super Center or check out this Superhero article to read more about Superheroes' influence in our current entertainment options.
We were provided this adorable costume for review from Costume Super Center. The cutie inside the costume is our own, as are my opinions.
I grew up with those same heroes and love them.
But you know as I do that most of them are all male.
There are a handful of strong super hero females, but none as powerful and iconic as Wonder Woman!
Our little firecracker princess is a strong personality, and I want her to revel in that and know that being strong (physically, mentally, emotionally, and psychologically) are traits that we hope she thrives for. Allowing her to "hero worship" a cartoon character at age 3 is one way to allow strong women into her life, even if they are fictional ones.
You can choose this same costume or any other from the girls' superhero costumes options at Costume Super Center or check out this Superhero article to read more about Superheroes' influence in our current entertainment options.
We were provided this adorable costume for review from Costume Super Center. The cutie inside the costume is our own, as are my opinions.
Monday, July 2, 2012
Eco-Friendly Ways to Beat the Summer Heat
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As the temperature readings skyrocket across the nation, there are some great eco-friendly ways to beat the summer heat that you can employ:
- Switch to CFL bulbs throughout your home. They emit less heat than incadescent bulbs and consume between 70% - 75% less energy.
- Connect all of your small appliances to one power strip that can be easily switched on and off when not in use.Kill the vampire power!
- Try not to use your oven. Summer is a great time to use your grill, microwave, or slow cooker to prevent heating your entire home. If you do cook, do it in bulk, only heating the oven once a week. Then reheat the meals using your microwave.
- Keep the effects of the sun to a minimum by closing the blinds and shades during peak periods of sunlight. Buy black out curtains and use them - especially on rooms that have a lot of windows or get a lot of afternoon sunlight.
- You can also plant trees or bushes in front of maximum light windows to keep out the scorching daytime heat. You not only save on cooling bills, but you plant a tree!
- Use ceiling fans to cool you. Even though they don’t actually cool the air, just the circulation of the air in the room makes you more comfortable by helping to cool and evaporate any sweat on your skin.
- Look into purchasing a programmable thermostat for your home. You can bump it up during the time people are away from the house and lower it just before you get home so that you are not cooling an unoccupied house.
- Your clothing choice has a huge effect on how hot or cool you feel. Lighter shades and natural fabrics will help you feel a lot cooler. Make sure your clothes fits loosely so your body is able to breathe.
- As your body is sweating a lot, you need to replenish the lost water. Water keeps you cooler and healthier.
- Keep a spray bottle of water in the refrigerator, and when the going gets hot, give yourself a good squirt.
- Skip the drying cycle on the dishwasher. Instead, leave the door open to let the dishes dry. And put off using the dishwasher until evening, when the air is cooler and the electric rates are lower. Better yet - run it while you sleep for optimum results.
- Bypass the clothes dryer and use a clothes line. Even if you don't have a yard, setting one up in a well lit area in your home is much more cost efficient. If you think this leaves your clothes feeling too stiff, after they are dry use the dryer for 10 minutes to fluff them.
- Cold (or cool) showers will cool your body, improve your circulation, and close your pores. Great beauty and health benefits along with not having to heat the water and then cool yourself off after the shower.
- Leave your lights off as long as you can during the day. Use natural lighting as much as possible.
- Have your A/C ductwork inspected for leaks. It will cost you a bit of money to pay for the service call, but if they find a few easy fixes, it will immediately pay for itself.
- Install an attic fan. You can purchase solar powered ones that burn none of your electricity but can cool your attic, allowing less heat to settle at the top floor of your home.
- Turn off the technology. I know...this one might be harder on some of us than others. But not only will you save money on your electric bill, but those laptops, big screen tvs, and gaming systems that so many of us have really put out a LOT of heat.
- If you have one available, visit a public park with a kid-friendly water feature. I know downtown Savannah we have one of our city squares that has a giant splash pad for the kids. It's a public space so it's free. You might have a fountain in a local park that allows playtime. If not, visit a friend with a pool.
Friday, June 29, 2012
A Discounted Way to Say Thank You
Right now LivingSocial has one of their national daily deals as a 50% savings for purchasing a USO care package for our troops.
Pay just $25 and the USO will put $50 toward a deployment care package or other morale-lifting services for our men and women of the armed forces -- and send you a T-shirt to show their appreciation. Filled with items like snacks, toiletries, and phone cards, each care package not only provides troops with a reminder of home, but helps those serving a world away reconnect with their loved ones.
Anyone who has ever been deployed will tell you how wonderful a simple gift from home can be a huge morale lift. And this deal is a great way to send a care package full of useful goodies without having to worry about what to put in the box.
What a great way to celebrate our nation's birthday - by honoring and blessing those who maintain our freedoms and help others gain the same liberties we enjoy.
Pay just $25 and the USO will put $50 toward a deployment care package or other morale-lifting services for our men and women of the armed forces -- and send you a T-shirt to show their appreciation. Filled with items like snacks, toiletries, and phone cards, each care package not only provides troops with a reminder of home, but helps those serving a world away reconnect with their loved ones.
Anyone who has ever been deployed will tell you how wonderful a simple gift from home can be a huge morale lift. And this deal is a great way to send a care package full of useful goodies without having to worry about what to put in the box.
What a great way to celebrate our nation's birthday - by honoring and blessing those who maintain our freedoms and help others gain the same liberties we enjoy.
Wednesday, June 20, 2012
How Less Debt Equals Cheaper Insurance
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So we called our existing insurance agent and asked if they could run a credit check and see if it would affect our rates. We knew our scores were really good because we had seen them when we refinanced our home a few months ago. We didn't change companies.We didn't change our plan. Just reran the credit score. Honestly, all my husband and I did was sign a form and fax it to them.
We got a letter in the mail. Our auto insurance rates were reduced by 13.5%! Now, in dollars that isn't a huge amount because the cars are paid off and as their worth depletes, so does our insurance rate. However, 13.5% is huge - especially since all we did is sign a piece of paper.
So if you've made some lifestyle changes and recently reduced your debt and have a lower debt to available credit ratio or if you've found another way to recently improve your credit score, contact your insurance agent. It's simplistic and can really save you some money!
Have you ever done this? What other ways can you save in unexpected places?
Friday, June 15, 2012
A Heart Like His by Beth Moore - Review
Publisher's Description:
We all go through times when we feel insignificant or times when we feel certain that we have experienced a degree of failure from which there is no return. This is not a reality we experience alone, but is one that a man after God’s heart experienced as well
In “A Heart Like His,” Beth Moore looks at this bond of mutual love and admiration between a man who was not unlike any of us and the one true God who is all good and all powerful. The book is an exploration of David’s incredible life, drawing spiritual insights from a man who boldly fulfilled his divine destiny not merely by what he did, but who he loved and served.
Bringing lessons from David’s life to bear on your own, this picture of a man who loved and followed God will help you to serve with a heart focused on Him no matter the circumstance.

My Thoughts:
I would be remiss if I didn't tell you that I am an enormous Beth Moore fan. The lady is truly gifted in her ability to truly study the Bible and inspire you to apply those stories you might have heard your entire life to your life in ways that you've never seen for yourself.
This book is no disappointment.
A Heart Like His takes the reader through the entire life of David, pulling from both books of Samuel, Chronicles and Kings as well as through many of the Psalms to compile David's life into a chronological story that I have never been able to put together in my mind so succinctly. I was truly wowed to see those things I knew about David put together into one long story and see him as a complete man. I am more in awe of him - his faults and failures as well as his victories, humility, and obedience. It is a story that allows that even the most obedient are not immune to sin - deeply ingrained sin - but allows that all can be redeemed. It shows God's love, His faithfulness, His heartbreak, His justice, His sadness, His disappointment, and His patience. It is a story, while sometimes hard to read, of hope.
Summary:
An amazing story, this is not a light read, which is pretty true of Mrs Moore's style. It is intense, unapologetic, tactful yet convicting, and humble while proclaiming the Glory of God and His holiness. However, although a heavy read, it moves along easily and smoothly - a feat that difficult for most authors to pull off. If you are ready to grow in your faith, pick this one up. You'll find yourself in this book somewhere in the life of David and you'll discover that no matter where you are, you too can be a (wo)man after God's own heart.
I was provided a copy of A Heart Like His for review. All opinions are my own.
We all go through times when we feel insignificant or times when we feel certain that we have experienced a degree of failure from which there is no return. This is not a reality we experience alone, but is one that a man after God’s heart experienced as well
In “A Heart Like His,” Beth Moore looks at this bond of mutual love and admiration between a man who was not unlike any of us and the one true God who is all good and all powerful. The book is an exploration of David’s incredible life, drawing spiritual insights from a man who boldly fulfilled his divine destiny not merely by what he did, but who he loved and served.
Bringing lessons from David’s life to bear on your own, this picture of a man who loved and followed God will help you to serve with a heart focused on Him no matter the circumstance.

My Thoughts:
I would be remiss if I didn't tell you that I am an enormous Beth Moore fan. The lady is truly gifted in her ability to truly study the Bible and inspire you to apply those stories you might have heard your entire life to your life in ways that you've never seen for yourself.
This book is no disappointment.
A Heart Like His takes the reader through the entire life of David, pulling from both books of Samuel, Chronicles and Kings as well as through many of the Psalms to compile David's life into a chronological story that I have never been able to put together in my mind so succinctly. I was truly wowed to see those things I knew about David put together into one long story and see him as a complete man. I am more in awe of him - his faults and failures as well as his victories, humility, and obedience. It is a story that allows that even the most obedient are not immune to sin - deeply ingrained sin - but allows that all can be redeemed. It shows God's love, His faithfulness, His heartbreak, His justice, His sadness, His disappointment, and His patience. It is a story, while sometimes hard to read, of hope.
Summary:
An amazing story, this is not a light read, which is pretty true of Mrs Moore's style. It is intense, unapologetic, tactful yet convicting, and humble while proclaiming the Glory of God and His holiness. However, although a heavy read, it moves along easily and smoothly - a feat that difficult for most authors to pull off. If you are ready to grow in your faith, pick this one up. You'll find yourself in this book somewhere in the life of David and you'll discover that no matter where you are, you too can be a (wo)man after God's own heart.
I was provided a copy of A Heart Like His for review. All opinions are my own.
Thursday, June 14, 2012
Auto Maintenance Even a Girl Can Do
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However, after I got married and my husband started handling all of the car maintenance, it seems I forgot how to do even some of the simplest tasks. This past week my oil light was coming on indicating low oil pressure. I knew with the light on I needed to stop and put in at least a quart of oil so I wouldn't ruin my engine. I had to call my husband and ask him several questions about what type of oil he used when he changed it and if it mattered if I put synthetic in or not. That frustrated me because these things I once knew. But I did it...and you can too.
Here are several car maintenance tips that every woman should know. And your college students that are leaving home for the first time this fall? Teach them too. =)
Changing the Air Filter - Rule #1 that only your dad will tell you is that when it is dirty, you don't necessarily need a new filter. Take it out, bang it on the concrete a few times to get the "big dirt" out and put it back in. After two or three times of this though, you need a new filter. All you'll need is a filter (say $15, but it varies between vehicles) and possibly a screwdriver. Make sure when you open it that you note how the filter sits in the housing so you'll know how the new one goes in. I had a oil change place try to charge me three times the price of my filter to do this once. I politely declined telling them I was perfectly capable myself, but thanks for letting me know it was dirty. Saved $30 right there.
Changing Windshield Wipers - Okay - this may not be a big deal to you because most auto parts stores will do this for free if you buy your wipers there. But in case you pick them up somewhere else, you can do this. Don't pay for someone else to do it for you. Note how the old ones come off and simply install the new ones the same way.
Replacing Fuses - If you've ever had a fuse go out on you, it could be really frightening at first. All my lights are off? Is the battery okay? First tip here is to keep a "multipack" of fuses in your glovebox. It will have an assortment that will cover you in a pinch. Locate the fuse box on your dashboard (probably on the side or underneath but could be on driver's or passenger's side). There will probably be one under your hood too, but check the one inside first. Read the little key on the cover of the box to tell you which one is the likely candidate to replace. Simply pull the fuse out with your fingers and replace it with the same kind. They are even color coded by amperage to make this easier on you.
Checking and/or Adding Oil - So changing your oil might be a bit over your head (it's really easy from what I hear though and my husband saves us a LOT of money by doing it himself). But if your car is an older model (or even if it isn't), you'll need to know how to pull the dipstick and read it and where to add oil if you're getting a little low. This is in no way meant to replace an oil change, but just to get you through until it can be changed (like if your oil light is on like mine was). Pop the hood of your car and locate the dipstick. It will be the little handle (either looped on top or a T shape) that says "OIL" on it. Pull that stick out. Wipe it off with a rag and reinsert. Now pull it out again and read the lines on the stick. It will tell you how much oil you have in there by the location of the oil on the stick. If you need more, buy a quart of the oil weight your car uses. Locate the twist-off cap labeled "Oil" that is probably near the middle of your engine. Carefully pour that oil directly into that hole. Be careful not to spill any, as it will smell awful as it burns off if you miss. But a steady hand is usually good enough. If you don't trust yourself, get a cheap funnel when you buy the oil.
Check and (if needed) Inflate Your Tires - If you own a car you should know how to use a tire gauge and keep one in your car. It can be checked anywhere at any time, as long as the car isn't moving (yeah...that wouldn't be recommended). Unscrew the tire cap, hook up the gauge, read the pressure. Your tires should have their recommended pressure written on them. Top off to that amount using one of those air stations at many gas stations. Your car will run better and you'll get better mileage with properly inflated tires.
Change a Light Bulb (headlight, turn signal, etc) - Okay, I'll admit...this is a lot easier on some cars than others. Some make it nearly impossible to get to the lights without disassembling part of the engine. But most are user-friendly. If you can get to our light housing, it's as easy as changing a bulb in your house.
Change a Flat Tire - Trust me on this one...you'll want to practice in your driveway before you've encountered this one real-life. This is one of those things that might be needed whether you have a brand new car or a 25 year old legend. It can happen any time, anywhere. If you don't want to wait for 1-1/2 hours for roadside assistance or trust the stranger that pulls along side to help to not be a mass murderer (okay, that might be excessive), learn to do it yourself. If you've practiced, you'll be able to do it in 10 minutes or less. If you haven't, it will cost you more time. Time that you don't want to be sitting on the side of the road as a potential abduction target or just a target or oncoming traffic that gets dangerously close.
Refill Wiper Fluid - It doesn't get easier than this. Buy a bottle of the stuff at a local retailer or gas station (possibly sitting outside between the pumping stations), pour into the wiper basin. It's labeled. It's probably white. Unless it's completely empty, you'll be able to see the old blue wiper fluid in it. If it is entirely empty, go ahead and pour that whole bottle in. Easy peasy.
So there are eight things that you can do. All by yourself. I promise. No matter how mechanically inclined you are (or are not), you can do each of those tasks. So go buy some fuses and a tire gauge on your next outing and while you are at home, do a few tire changes using your jack (and your owner's manual if needed).
Stay safe...and save some money while doing it! =)
Have you ever had to do these things? Tell us your story in the comments.
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